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by NOWmormon
Thu Jul 06, 2017 7:14 am
Forum: Support
Topic: I am a NOW Mormon
Replies: 8
Views: 4437

I am a NOW Mormon

There are so many monikers out there (ex, post, former, active, inactive, jack, nevermo, NOM, etc) In an effort to consolidate all these labels into one inclusive, comprehensive term, a "NOW Mormon" encompasses EVERYONE past/present/future who has had negative experiences regarding the church. NOW M...
by NOWmormon
Thu Jun 22, 2017 1:49 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: I AM SICK OF THE CHURCH BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE! (insert row of angry emojis here)
Replies: 23
Views: 20294

Re: I AM SICK OF THE CHURCH BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE! (insert row of angry emojis here)

NOWMormon, How close are you to getting a response back from the FP about the historical deception? Thank you for asking. I have had to put this back-burner for a while, a lot going on, but I am taking a well deserved vacation next week, and then hope to refocus. Who knows what the outcome will be,...
by NOWmormon
Sun Jun 18, 2017 9:46 am
Forum: Support
Topic: I AM SICK OF THE CHURCH BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE! (insert row of angry emojis here)
Replies: 23
Views: 20294

Re: I AM SICK OF THE CHURCH BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE! (insert row of angry emojis here)

I am so sorry for the abuse by your ex-husband. The Church does great wrong by putting inexperienced, untrained men in positions where they can spout advice that hurts families and convincing the members to go to them with their problems. It is truly messed up. They never answer the concerns that a...
by NOWmormon
Sun Jun 18, 2017 9:39 am
Forum: Support
Topic: I AM SICK OF THE CHURCH BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE! (insert row of angry emojis here)
Replies: 23
Views: 20294

Re: I AM SICK OF THE CHURCH BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE! (insert row of angry emojis here)

Bill Reel in his episode #268 (Spirtual Trauma in Mormonism) termed what we want thru in Mormonism as "spiritual abuse". I love that term because it describes better what we went/are going thru. I think it's one of Bills best episodes - thanks Bill!!!! http://www.mormondiscussionpodcast.org/ Spirit...
by NOWmormon
Sat Jun 17, 2017 3:02 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: I AM SICK OF THE CHURCH BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE! (insert row of angry emojis here)
Replies: 23
Views: 20294

I AM SICK OF THE CHURCH BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE! (insert row of angry emojis here)

The new Ensign article about Doubt says doubt comes from Satan. - Seriously? So if I doubt something in the church, it is because Satan has gotten into my heart and my mind? (per the article) - For almost two centuries now, the church has hidden truths, twisted facts, distorted numbers, changed stor...
by NOWmormon
Sat Jun 17, 2017 2:59 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Why don't Hernia/Prostate/Pelvic/Breast exams break the Law of Chastity?
Replies: 12
Views: 9362

Re: Why don't Hernia/Prostate/Pelvic/Breast exams break the Law of Chastity?

Red Ryder wrote:
Fri Jun 16, 2017 4:37 pm
I've heard that story in regards to the temple initiatory. Only instead of a cold spoon, it was a 90 year old man's oiled up shaky hand! :shock:
LOL
and gross
by NOWmormon
Thu Jun 01, 2017 4:53 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: A different Q15----------
Replies: 37
Views: 18926

Re: A different Q15----------

Church members are asked 15 questions (the Q15) during temple recommend interviews with church leadership. But since you are essentially anonymous on this site, how would you answer those same questions here? I just want to thank NOWMormon for the Q15 thread. I've been trying to recall when the las...
by NOWmormon
Wed May 31, 2017 4:20 am
Forum: Support
Topic: A different Q15 --------- Question #15 - Self evaluation
Replies: 25
Views: 12672

A different Q15 --------- Question #15 - Self evaluation

Each day, for the rest of May, please share your honest response to each temple recommend question, based on what you believe right now
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#15
Do you consider yourself worthy to enter the Lord's house and participate in temple ordinances?
by NOWmormon
Tue May 30, 2017 4:48 am
Forum: Support
Topic: A different Q15 --------- Question #14 (the only one focused on the past vs present)
Replies: 18
Views: 9879

A different Q15 --------- Question #14 (the only one focused on the past vs present)

Each day, for the rest of May, please share your honest response to each temple recommend question, based on what you believe right now

#14
Have there been any sins or misdeeds in your life that should have been resolved with priesthood authorities but have not been?
by NOWmormon
Mon May 29, 2017 9:45 am
Forum: Support
Topic: A different Q15 --------- Question #13 - Garments
Replies: 19
Views: 9683

A different Q15 --------- Question #13 - Garments

Each day, for the rest of May, please share your honest response to each temple recommend question, based on what you believe right now - 13 If you have previously received your temple endowment: -Do you keep the covenants that you made in the temple? -Do you wear the garment both night and day as i...
by NOWmormon
Sun May 28, 2017 10:22 am
Forum: Support
Topic: A different Q15 ---------Question #12 (more financial obligations)
Replies: 17
Views: 8532

A different Q15 ---------Question #12 (more financial obligations)

Each day, for the rest of May, please share your honest response to each temple recommend question, based on what you believe right now - #12 Do you have financial or other obligations to a former spouse or children? If yes, are you current in meeting those obligations? - Personal thoughts: -Why are...
by NOWmormon
Sat May 27, 2017 9:35 am
Forum: Support
Topic: A different Q15 --------- Question #11 - WOW
Replies: 25
Views: 14061

A different Q15 --------- Question #11 - WOW

Each day, for the rest of May, please share your honest response to each temple recommend question, based on what you believe right now. - #11 Do you keep the Word of Wisdom? - Personal thought: The WOW has DOs and DON’Ts. Why is it, if you DO the DON’Ts, you can’t get a TR. But if you DON’T do the ...
by NOWmormon
Fri May 26, 2017 6:53 am
Forum: Support
Topic: A different Q15 --------- Question #10 (percent)
Replies: 19
Views: 11799

A different Q15 --------- Question #10 (percent)

Each day, for the rest of May, please share your honest response to each temple recommend question, based on what you believe right now.

#10
Are you a full-tithe payer?
by NOWmormon
Thu May 25, 2017 4:25 am
Forum: Support
Topic: A different Q15 --------- Question #9 (Hypocrisy at its best)
Replies: 25
Views: 17233

A different Q15 --------- Question #9 (Hypocrisy at its best)

Each day, for the rest of May, please share your honest response to each temple recommend question, based on what you believe right now. - #9 Are you honest in your dealings with your fellowmen? Personal thought: The Lord’s church has always emphasized the importance of being honest, as well as the ...
by NOWmormon
Wed May 24, 2017 5:37 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: A different Q15 --------- Question #8
Replies: 25
Views: 16525

Re: A different Q15 --------- Question #8

Do you strive to keep the covenants you have made: I didn't make them. Some medievil (sp. intentional) stone masons made them. They are weirder now that I know the truth than when I was first traumatized by them back in the late seventies. Thank you so such for your post. I see a kindred spirit in ...
by NOWmormon
Wed May 24, 2017 9:28 am
Forum: Support
Topic: A different Q15 --------- Question #8
Replies: 25
Views: 16525

Re: A different Q15 --------- Question #8

Covenants Baptismal: yes Obedience: absolutely not. It was through obeying that covenant I learned exactly how dangerous it is. At the very least, it robs women of their agency and integrity. Sacrifice: no Chastity: yes Law or consecration: no Marriage: yes, in that I hold marriage sacred Give It T...
by NOWmormon
Wed May 24, 2017 4:40 am
Forum: Support
Topic: A different Q15 --------- Question #8
Replies: 25
Views: 16525

A different Q15 --------- Question #8

Each day, for the rest of May, please share your honest response to each temple recommend question, based on what you believe right now. #8 Do you strive to keep the covenants you have made, to attend your sacrament and other meetings, and to keep your life in harmony with the laws and commandments ...
by NOWmormon
Wed May 24, 2017 4:36 am
Forum: Support
Topic: A different Q15 ---------- Question #4 (which actually includes three questions)
Replies: 23
Views: 12268

Re: A different Q15 ---------- Question #4 (which actually includes three questions)

I've been commenting, then reading other people's replies so that I'm answering honestly. You guys were succinct in your replies. I was rather lengthy. I'd forgotten about Hinckley's words. They'd work if I didn't want to get all preachy, like I did in my reply. I have been loving everyone's replie...
by NOWmormon
Tue May 23, 2017 4:23 am
Forum: Support
Topic: A different Q15 --------- Question #7 (NOM)
Replies: 21
Views: 10641

A different Q15 --------- Question #7 (NOM)

Each day, for the rest of May, please share your honest response to each temple recommend question, based on what you believe right now. #7 Do you support, affiliate with, or agree with any group or individual whose teachings or practices are contrary to or oppose those accepted by the Church of Jes...