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by No Tof
Sun Oct 04, 2020 10:23 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: It's been a year.....
Replies: 4
Views: 16292

It's been a year.....

Just letting you know I am still alive and well.

It's been a year since my last confession and its a long story. In short, I'm fine on this side of the rabbit hole. Can't say I don't think about mormon stuff but I see clearly and have no regrets.

Hope the few who recognize my alias are well.
by No Tof
Sun Apr 07, 2019 2:15 pm
Forum: The Coffee Shop
Topic: Queer Eye
Replies: 7
Views: 4342

Re: Queer Eye

OK..... better late than ever, but this is a great show. I can't believe how in the closet my mind was. I seriously grew up with almost no understanding of the idea of "gay". In high school of course my mind came out of the closet but the mormon paradigm slanted my views. Still I didn't have any gay...
by No Tof
Fri Feb 08, 2019 7:08 am
Forum: Support
Topic: To stand or not to stand
Replies: 15
Views: 7851

Re: To stand or not to stand

The advice above is good regarding doing what is best for DW. If it makes her happy consider doing so unless it would be a serious negative for you personally. FWIW, I have stepped in to the "circle" a couple of times in the past to set apart my DW and have to admit it was a chuckle both times. The ...
by No Tof
Thu Jan 03, 2019 12:16 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Do I tell DH I've tried alcohol?
Replies: 20
Views: 9308

Re: Do I tell DH I've tried alcohol?

Being honest is still the best policy. That being said though, my DW hates it when I drink. We have had the open discussions, come to a fairly agreeable compromise but I’d say it is her line in the sand. If I cross it by drinking at our home or getting drunk with her..... it’s her hill to die on. Be...
by No Tof
Thu Jan 03, 2019 12:01 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Need Advice - Potential Visit from a Seventy
Replies: 44
Views: 18051

Re: Need Advice - Potential Visit from a Seventy

Come visit me instead. Or i could come your way. I think we live about 3 hours away. Not bad for Canadians.

It will be more fun, less anxiety and we can enjoy adult beverages if you’d like.
by No Tof
Sun Dec 16, 2018 10:16 am
Forum: The Coffee Shop
Topic: What are you drinking right now?
Replies: 489
Views: 302632

Re: What are you drinking right now?

I usually don't like cocktails, but the other night I tried the Christmas special at a favourite watering hole...... real eggnog. Eggnog (probably from a carton) but with spiced rum on ice with a light dusting of cinnamon on the rim. Sweet to a fault but brought out happy memories with a twist. Merr...
by No Tof
Thu Dec 13, 2018 3:08 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Drop off receipts...
Replies: 8
Views: 4742

Re: Drop off receipts...

Really make his day by inviting him to ski this Sunday. Let him know you are the 1 sheep lost (in bounds of course) and give him the receipts on the chair ride up.
by No Tof
Mon Dec 10, 2018 11:32 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Happy I'm Sick!
Replies: 8
Views: 5441

Re: Happy I'm Sick!

Hagoth wrote:
Sun Dec 09, 2018 9:12 am
Curb your enthusiasm. Right now someone is praying "bless those who aren't here this week that they will be here next week."
I'd just like to bare my personal witness that those prayers don't work. (thank the goddess :lol: )
by No Tof
Mon Dec 10, 2018 11:30 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Coffee 101
Replies: 36
Views: 19480

Re: Coffee 101

Resigning, now all this coffee talk; you may have to change your name "Goodboy" ;)

Thanks for the map through Starbucks.

Coffee by any name still tastes as good.......
by No Tof
Sat Dec 08, 2018 11:17 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Monthly EQ updates
Replies: 12
Views: 6012

Re: Monthly EQ updates

I really like your EQP.

You don't have to talk to him, see his face or respond to the request.

Delete the email and have a beer on me.

Happy ........

Peace.
by No Tof
Wed Dec 05, 2018 12:03 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Nelson's Christmas devotional talk was disgusting
Replies: 13
Views: 7253

Re: Nelson's Christmas devotional talk was disgusting

DW said it was really good. Who am I to disagree?


The ward had a wing night for all the guys and their kids. It sounded like a good idea so I stopped by to say hello. Sadly there was no beer so I went home and celebrated my own way. :D
by No Tof
Tue Nov 27, 2018 11:39 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Thank you Bill!
Replies: 8
Views: 4172

Re: Thank you Bill!

Yup. Me too.
Hope he feels our support and doesn't take it too seriously.
by No Tof
Sun Nov 25, 2018 4:11 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Who's up for a carpool to St. George Tuesday?
Replies: 24
Views: 14156

Re: Who's up for a carpool to St. George Tuesday?

Wish I could brother Hagoth, but I used all my travel points to come to the lunch the other day.

Sending Bill( and guess now Gina) lots of Canadian good luck smoke signals.
by No Tof
Sat Nov 24, 2018 12:52 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Mormon Dessert Gathering
Replies: 7
Views: 4059

Re: Mormon Dessert Gathering

My guess is that if you just say, no we haven’t, and take another bite of that delicious browny they will move on to another topic or move on physically.

TBMs don’t really want to know.
by No Tof
Sat Nov 24, 2018 12:46 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Oh Boy, I Get to GO BACK!!
Replies: 5
Views: 3711

Re: Oh Boy, I Get to GO BACK!!

Ewwwwe. Never thought about the hands that break the bread. It’s just gross. Good luck. I find that going to church occasionally like I do can be entertaining if I don’t get emotionally involved. Looking for interesting quirks or humorous anecdotes makes the hour fly by. Maybe fake the sacrament bre...
by No Tof
Tue Nov 13, 2018 2:59 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Lunch With Fellow NOMies
Replies: 45
Views: 23449

Re: Lunch With Fellow NOMies

I’m breathing Utah air and looking forward to lunch tomorrow.
Santa hat in hand as we tap. 🇨🇦
by No Tof
Thu Nov 08, 2018 6:09 pm
Forum: Mixed Faith Relationships
Topic: sparks and breadcrumbs
Replies: 4
Views: 3622

Re: sparks and breadcrumbs

Hope...........


I think, sadly, my patience is running out. I do hope, but anytime a spark or breadcrumb looks real, it turns out to be a mirage.

Thanks for sharing a positive moment though. Longing for a day when we could even talk openly about the church.
by No Tof
Wed Nov 07, 2018 9:30 am
Forum: Gatherings, Events, and Announcements
Topic: NOMie Lunch, November 14, 2018, SLC
Replies: 4
Views: 17491

Re: NOMie Lunch, November 14, 2018, SLC

Planning to be there.
by No Tof
Tue Nov 06, 2018 5:09 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Treasure Digging Podcast
Replies: 5
Views: 3141

Re: Treasure Digging Podcast

Great podcast, Consiglieri...... as always.
by No Tof
Sun Nov 04, 2018 4:06 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Coffee
Replies: 22
Views: 11906

Re: Coffee

Oh brothers and sisters. I never thought I'd become evangelical again but coffee...... ah that is something to share. Sounds like everyone has gained some experience with the different tastes and methods. My journey of discovery has taken me from Tim Hortons and McDonalds to nice espresso shops to b...