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by Red Ryder
Tue Jan 25, 2022 1:28 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: DW wearing garments again?
Replies: 9
Views: 141

Re: DW wearing garments again?

Someone explain to me again how a frontier sex cult morphed into the sick, repressed version of Corporate MORmONism that we have today? I think isolation removed the persecution. In the absence of persecution, the system needed a new enemy. But where can you find a new enemy in Utah? Look no furthe...
by Red Ryder
Tue Jan 25, 2022 9:56 am
Forum: Support
Topic: DW wearing garments again?
Replies: 9
Views: 141

Re: DW wearing garments again?

Stealth, does your wife know why Joseph originally invented "garments?" I assume she does. She finds meaning in the garment I THINK regardless of the origin. I think she doesn't like the control about it. She has become very against external authority and she doesn't see the need for a priesthood h...
by Red Ryder
Mon Jan 24, 2022 3:24 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: FIGHT THE OLD DRUG: PURITY CULTURE
Replies: 10
Views: 148

Re: FIGHT THE OLD DRUG: PURITY CULTURE

Mr. Clean and the Clorox company would object.
by Red Ryder
Mon Jan 24, 2022 3:21 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: DW wearing garments again?
Replies: 9
Views: 141

Re: DW wearing garments again?

Sorry Stealth. Here’s a few ideas off the top of my head. 1. Compromise. She wears hers Mon - Thur. You wear hers Friday - Sunday. 2. She could color them Pink 3. She could cut them down to normal patterns. 4. Wear the Top or bottom. Not both 5. Spend a week in Houston for a hot and humid vacation. ...
by Red Ryder
Wed Jan 19, 2022 3:19 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Fight The New Drug
Replies: 80
Views: 1531

Re: Fight The New Drug

Now I'm kind of worried. Is Captain Salty going to turn this site into Nude Order Mormon? No offense, but I'm not sure that's what I signed up for. I just googled “Nude Order Mormon” (for research purposes, Bonfire…) and just came across a great article. https://www.jstor.org/stable/44368772 CONCEA...
by Red Ryder
Wed Jan 19, 2022 8:08 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Fight The New Drug
Replies: 80
Views: 1531

Re: Fight The New Drug

Are you serious? This feels like a troll. If this one thread actually "ruined your hope for humanity" you need something far more than FTND. Get some actual help for yourself. You seem to be obsessed with this issue. I hope you can get some perspective and some actual healing. Or at a minimum… supp...
by Red Ryder
Mon Jan 17, 2022 4:08 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Fight The New Drug
Replies: 80
Views: 1531

Re: Fight The New Drug

I’ve read many stories and examples of people that claim porn enhanced there marriage.

Perhaps moderation in all things?

Monday… NFL Monday night football
Tuesday … the bachelor
Wed… general conference re-runs
Thursday - CSI
Friday… porn
Saturday… Gilligan’s island
Sunday… Disney
by Red Ryder
Sun Jan 16, 2022 3:22 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Fight The New Drug
Replies: 80
Views: 1531

Re: Fight The New Drug

Does anyone know if Fight the New Drug or any of their founders make money off their anti porn product?
by Red Ryder
Wed Jan 12, 2022 3:38 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Elder Gong: “Please don’t post that photo…”
Replies: 49
Views: 1180

Re: Elder Gong: “Please don’t post that photo…”

The older Gong, yea even The Elder Gong…

Could have just smiled for the camera and let a quick family photo be snapped without any comment or worry about “what it would look like”.

All I see is a group of 4 people eating dinner.
3 that appear happy.
1 that appears annoyed.
by Red Ryder
Wed Jan 12, 2022 1:05 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Elder Gong: “Please don’t post that photo…”
Replies: 49
Views: 1180

Re: Elder Gong: “Please don’t post that photo…”

By the looks on their faces, both Elder Gong and Sister Gong seem to understand the consequences with different perspectives. He’s disappointed and she’s smiling happily.
by Red Ryder
Wed Jan 12, 2022 12:50 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Elder Gong: “Please don’t post that photo…”
Replies: 49
Views: 1180

Elder Gong: “Please don’t post that photo…”

Thread on Reddit discussing this. I thought I would copy pasta for more visibility and to spread the picture around the internet some more. :lol: Scroll down to his post titles: Built On Sand 2019 https://medium.com/@thatonegaygong/state-of-the-matt-2021-6e0d278e8d01 The first time I brought a partn...
by Red Ryder
Tue Jan 11, 2022 5:35 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Sealed to the church by shame
Replies: 18
Views: 565

Re: Sealed to the church by shame

Another weekly reminder brought to you by the ghost of Zadok the Priest:

NEVER CONFESS!
by Red Ryder
Tue Jan 11, 2022 1:02 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Sealed to the church by shame
Replies: 18
Views: 565

Re: Sealed to the church by shame

That feeling of shame is so real that it makes other things that may not be real seem real. So you get convinced that God hates masturbation and that the church has some truth because they were right about this thing. And then you spend tons of time and attention on this "problem" so there is no me...
by Red Ryder
Tue Jan 11, 2022 11:58 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Sealed to the church by shame
Replies: 18
Views: 565

Re: Sealed to the church by shame

Nobody actually explained WHY masturbation was bad. Only that it was considered a sin against the law of chastity. However, in the temple the law of chastity only meant no sexual relations with anyone other than your legally wedded (opposite sex) spouse. As a kid you think your the only one with the...
by Red Ryder
Mon Jan 10, 2022 2:13 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Konfession Time!
Replies: 66
Views: 15422

Re: Konfession Time!

I really can't believe how my life has changed: (Snip…) I have to keep reminding myself and my DW that I have been at this A LOT longer than she has. She is in the very early stages and we both need to keep this in mind in order to try to understand one another. We also need to remember, that what ...
by Red Ryder
Fri Jan 07, 2022 1:51 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Konfession Time!
Replies: 66
Views: 15422

Re: Konfession Time!

Any news from Kish lately? I confess that I am scared to move on. Kish is doing good. His divorce was finalized a bit ago. He has settled in to his new normal. His daughter continues to have health issues related to her seizures. I’ll see if I can get him to update here. I’m not so much scared to m...
by Red Ryder
Thu Jan 06, 2022 6:54 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Konfession Time!
Replies: 66
Views: 15422

Re: Konfession Time!

I like to resurrect old Konfession posts from Kish.
by Red Ryder
Thu Jan 06, 2022 6:38 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Did anyone else hear voices?
Replies: 22
Views: 512

Re: Did anyone else hear voices?

I’m wondering if your subconscious was trying to tell you to take it slow explaining your faith crisis to your wife. It’s the spirit that matters could mean the tone of your expressions of disbelief. The most important thing NOMs can do is to take things slow. Perhaps your conscious knew this and th...
by Red Ryder
Thu Jan 06, 2022 12:09 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: In the rubble of collapsed apologetics
Replies: 23
Views: 742

Re: In the rubble of collapsed apologetics

I like the “inspired imagination” theory. :lol:

Makes complete sense now.

Joseph made it all up through his inspired imagination. Now to determine the source of his inspiration. Survey says the source originated somewhere between his belt and knees.
by Red Ryder
Wed Jan 05, 2022 2:47 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: In the rubble of collapsed apologetics
Replies: 23
Views: 742

Re: In the rubble of collapsed apologetics

So, assuming this trend continues, does it mean the church will become less stiff and dogmatic, or does it portend the opposite, that the focus will be taken even further away from scripture and onto living prophetsseersandrevelators? The latter. The focus will be to de-intellectualize the church, ...