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by alas
Wed Jan 07, 2026 4:53 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Handling severe illness as a NOM
Replies: 7
Views: 7437

Re: Handling severe illness as a NOM

During the relax and move forward step from what got cut off above was basically to find what for you helps you relax and then move into any problem solving. Sometimes there is really nothing you can do and then it is a matter of finding support and dealing with feelings. So, on to what can be done ...
by alas
Tue Jan 06, 2026 12:26 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Handling severe illness as a NOM
Replies: 7
Views: 7437

Re: Handling severe illness as a NOM

Rats, that last post was too long and cut off the last and I can’t seem to retrieve it and right now, I have to go. So, I will come back later and rewrite
by alas
Tue Jan 06, 2026 12:19 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Handling severe illness as a NOM
Replies: 7
Views: 7437

Re: Handling severe illness as a NOM

Even an atheist can find a ritual or ceremony that helps. See, placebos work. Really. There is a reason scientists never have a single control group that gets no medication. They may have 3 groups, the real medicine group, the placebo group, and the nothing group. I took classes in psychology where ...
by alas
Sun Jan 04, 2026 12:20 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Polygamy deniers are so close to the truth.
Replies: 2
Views: 6852

Re: Polygamy deniers are so close to the truth.

I don’t do podcasts and don’t want to waste time, so if they actually said anything new, somebody needs to do a TLDlisten on it. But my experience with past deniers is that they just blame it on Brigham Young instead. So, really deniers are just saying that there is absolutely no justification or exc ...
by alas
Sun Jan 04, 2026 11:57 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Handling severe illness as a NOM
Replies: 7
Views: 7437

Re: Handling severe illness as a NOM

I am so sorry you are going through so much right now. I can give you some real empathy on the neuropathy. Mine has a different cause, but the pain is just as real. And doctors do not take it seriously. Somehow they seem to think that neuropathy pain is false pain, so therefore it doesn’t hurt. They ...
by alas
Mon Dec 15, 2025 2:46 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Which Church would you choose?
Replies: 6
Views: 22172

Re: Which Church would you choose?

My DH asked me not to resign and keeping my records in the church doesn’t currently hurt me, so I would be officially Mormon. If there was some kind of requirement to align my beliefs with my church membership, then that would change things. If I had to belong to the church closest to my beliefs, I m ...
by alas
Tue Dec 09, 2025 4:48 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Freedom of Speech is a secular concept.
Replies: 3
Views: 31321

Re: Freedom of Speech is a secular concept.

Good on you, Alas. Free education is hard to pass up but maybe it wouldn't have been free of bias and bigotry. Crying foul over a failed psych paper in the name of freedom of speech is laughable. She had and still has freedom to write what she wants. She wasn't arrested or tortured or stripped of ...
by alas
Sun Dec 07, 2025 5:00 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Pornography and the eye of the beholder
Replies: 9
Views: 29761

Re: Pornography and the eye of the beholder

I was fortunate to see Michaelangelo's David in Florence as a teenager, with a mixed group of other teenagers from across the US. I did not observe any reactions from our group to the statue being nude. It was more like moments of wonder and awe at the genius that produced such a thing. A true ...
by alas
Fri Dec 05, 2025 8:11 pm
Forum: The Coffee Shop
Topic: What was King David Really Like?
Replies: 3
Views: 51195

Re: What was King David Really Like?

Exactly. The Bible is likely full of propaganda. As is the Quran, The Book of Mormon, and all other "scripture." Many Bible scholars say that much of the Bible is (totally fictional) stories meant to unite different people into one nation with one national identity. The stories of David however ...
by alas
Fri Dec 05, 2025 7:59 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Freedom of Speech is a secular concept.
Replies: 3
Views: 31321

Re: Freedom of Speech is a secular concept.

Then there are all the so-called Christians going nuts over the girl in college who wrote a religious tract instead of the required psychology essay and is unhappy with her failing grade. They are calling it a freedom of religion problem that she doesn’t know that for a psychology grade your subject ...
by alas
Sat Nov 29, 2025 1:14 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Shorter Conference
Replies: 7
Views: 28125

Re: Shorter Conference

I think the primary reason is all of the apostles, who have to preside and talk at all of these conference sessions, are really old. I agree, it is probably a long long weekend for 80-100 year old men who have been doing it for 30 years and are just plain tired. Well, I have a solution for them ...
by alas
Fri Nov 28, 2025 4:39 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: The legalistic Oaks era has begun
Replies: 7
Views: 17380

Re: The legalistic Oaks era has begun

I think those of us who remember this should come out openly and loudly in support of the podcasters and who ever the church is trying to bully out of using a perfectly good word. They could not make the word “Mormon” disappear by calling its use a victory for Satan, so now they are going to try to m ...
by alas
Tue Nov 25, 2025 7:53 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: The legalistic Oaks era has begun
Replies: 7
Views: 17380

Re: The legalistic Oaks era has begun

Wait, wasn’t it ruled already that “Mormon” is not a word that they can claim any kind of right to? But trust Oaks to ignore legal president as well as do a 180 on his predecessor.
by alas
Fri Nov 21, 2025 12:47 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Shorter Conference
Replies: 7
Views: 28125

Re: Shorter Conference

When they tried getting rid of the Saturday night session once before, many women objected because it completely gets rid of any kind of women’s session where we can have more than 1 out of 20 women speak. First of all, way back, women’s session, YW session, were not considered part of conference. An ...
by alas
Tue Nov 18, 2025 10:01 pm
Forum: The Coffee Shop
Topic: What's going on with Marjorie Taylor-Greene?
Replies: 2
Views: 12908

Re: What's going on with Marjorie Taylor-Greene?

I am not sure if the woman is capable of rational thought. But maybe her election handlers are telling her to cut herself loose from tRump. And telling her exactly what to say and how to act. Either that of Charlie Kirk’s death really triggered a come to Jesus….no, not that Jesus, the other one that ...
by alas
Mon Nov 17, 2025 9:33 am
Forum: The Coffee Shop
Topic: Keeping up with Trump
Replies: 1176
Views: 7934901

Re: Keeping up with Trump

...denial is her first name. After that river in Africa? Several things that she used to claim were deal breakers for her, and she just refuses to accept reality. She does not want to know because then she would have to see that she is wrong. So, she's also a Mormon. Raised that way and I suppose ...
by alas
Sat Nov 15, 2025 10:58 am
Forum: The Coffee Shop
Topic: Keeping up with Trump
Replies: 1176
Views: 7934901

Re: Keeping up with Trump

I need a good “how stupid can Trump supporters be” gripe session. And it needs to be where the guilty party can’t read it and realize that if I could never see her again, I would go for it. But then she would just deny that it could be her I am talking about because denial is her first name. I have h ...
by alas
Mon Nov 03, 2025 6:16 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: I heard Moksha passed away recently…
Replies: 12
Views: 69183

Re: I heard Moksha passed away recently…

So sad. I loved his humor, even when I didn’t get it. He will be missed I noticed he had not been around for a few weeks. I do check in once a week or so, but usually we have no way of finding out how people are unless we know them in real life, and sometimes people disappear because they just run o ...
by alas
Wed Oct 08, 2025 1:57 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: NOMference Fall 2025 Sat morning!!!
Replies: 57
Views: 76127

Re: NOMference Fall 2025 Sat morning!!!

Respond to abuse with kindness, children... -50 Missed it, came here for synopsis. Can you elaborate on this? Were children told to be kind to those who abuse them??? It was this weird story about someone being emotional and probably verbally abusive (they didn't use the word abusive, but that's ...
by alas
Mon Oct 06, 2025 4:49 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: mAGA and vertical morality
Replies: 2
Views: 16868

mAGA and vertical morality

I just read an article explaining why so-called Christians are acting so hateful and UNChristlike. It talked about vertical and horizontal morality. Vertical morality is that morality comes from a top authority figure, while horizontal morality thinks about the effect on other people. So, these so ...