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by Curelom
Sun May 12, 2019 8:07 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Newly disillusioned...
Replies: 26
Views: 44813

Re: Newly disillusioned...

2. If you feel you can't handle being in the bishopric, use your family and career as leverage. Let the bishop know that you have a young family and a new career and they have to come first for you. Ask to be released so you can focus on those who need you the most. No need to even bring up your do...
by Curelom
Sun May 12, 2019 3:42 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Understanding TBMs
Replies: 7
Views: 3917

Re: Understanding TBMs

I see that picture and think of every lesson I've had about the "armor of God," word of wisdom, law of chastity. All these lessons where if you mess up once you're in "satan's power." Also the temple video and satan's warning, if you mess up "you're in may power." So if I participate in "loud laught...
by Curelom
Thu May 09, 2019 8:10 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Newly disillusioned...
Replies: 26
Views: 44813

Re: Newly disillusioned...

That's exactly what I pictured a curelom to look like! Agreed, maybe Geroge Lucas was inspired by the BoM :D If you want to turn your pet into a curelom they sell this at walmart.com...it looks very "useful to man" https://i5.walmartimages.com/asr/126977af-2eda-46b2-9f2f-b93b478be7f0_1.ccd43097ade0...
by Curelom
Thu May 09, 2019 12:54 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Newly disillusioned...
Replies: 26
Views: 44813

Re: Newly disillusioned...

Welcome Most of us here can quickly relate - you're in the thick of things currently. Let me give a 3 step process on where to go: 1) Talk about everything with your wife 2) Talk about everything with your wife 3) Talk about everything with your wife We can offer support, ideas, experience, etc, bu...
by Curelom
Thu May 09, 2019 12:48 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Newly disillusioned...
Replies: 26
Views: 44813

Re: Newly disillusioned...

Hey All, I've been lurking here for a few months and have enjoyed many of the conversations so I thought I would join and introduce myself. We are glad you found us. We can certainly sympathize with your position. Many of us have been living in that position for a very long time. The LDS rabbit hol...
by Curelom
Thu May 09, 2019 12:25 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Newly disillusioned...
Replies: 26
Views: 44813

Re: Newly disillusioned...

Welcome!! It sounds like you're doing everything right- taking it slow and thinking things through before making any decisions... as crazy as it sounds, most people (myself included) do not handle that initial shock so well. I've yet to find more than a few people who have had their shelves break a...
by Curelom
Wed May 08, 2019 11:49 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Newly disillusioned...
Replies: 26
Views: 44813

Newly disillusioned...

Hey All, I've been lurking here for a few months and have enjoyed many of the conversations so I thought I would join and introduce myself. I've was raised mormon in Colorado, had a rebellious youth, but ended up following the typical mormon path. I served a mission, went to BYU, got married, did me...