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by stuck
Fri Sep 26, 2025 9:25 am
Forum: Support
Topic: The simplest questions
Replies: 23
Views: 82332

Re: The simplest questions

Why was there racism in the Book of Mormon, Book of Abraham etc?

Why was BY so racist?

Why does the church now disavow these racist teachings?

Why did the church finally allow blacks to have the priesthood in 1978?
by stuck
Fri Sep 26, 2025 9:22 am
Forum: Support
Topic: The simplest questions
Replies: 23
Views: 82332

Re: The simplest questions

Why did JS marry so many wives who were already married? Why did Oliver Cowdery get excommunicated because he believed JS affair with Fanny Alger was adultery? Why did BY marry Zina Huntington after JS died even though her husband was on a mission? Why did JS coerce young girls to marry him? Why did ...
by stuck
Mon Sep 22, 2025 2:29 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: The simplest questions
Replies: 23
Views: 82332

Re: The simplest questions

Why did the bom have so many anachronisms: animals, plants, Christianity, Isaiah, Biblical passages, writing, etc? Why did JS want to be a king and polygamist when in the bom it says that was abominable? Why does the LDS church want 10% of our gross income when the interest that it makes can pay for ...
by stuck
Thu Sep 11, 2025 10:20 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Biggest changes in the church in your lifetime
Replies: 16
Views: 8000

Re: Biggest changes in the church in your lifetime

The essays, the wealth of the church and the church hiding it and using it for malls etc, family size and birth control, mothers staying in the home, mission age, come follow me, covenant path, seminary students being lightly inoculated to church history stuff, changes in the temple and to garments ...
by stuck
Tue Sep 09, 2025 11:50 am
Forum: Support
Topic: forced labour
Replies: 6
Views: 13451

Re: forced labour

In the news today: https://www.houstonpublicmedia.org/articles/news/crime/2025/08/27/529579/houston-ministry-raided-by-fbi-as-part-of-multi-state-investigation-into-abuse-by-church-leaders/?utm_source=rss-crime-article&utm_medium=link&utm_campaign=hpm-rss-link the self-proclaimed leaders ... punish ...
by stuck
Mon Sep 08, 2025 9:47 am
Forum: Support
Topic: forced labour
Replies: 6
Views: 13451

Re: forced labour

Yeah, sometimes I feel guilty about declaring that I am a full tithe payor in front of my wife and kids and I really haven't been paying tithing. However, I was tbm for quite awhile and paid 10% of my gross income for quite awhile. Then after my faith crisis read that in the early days of the church ...
by stuck
Wed Apr 30, 2025 8:49 am
Forum: Support
Topic: The length some people go to
Replies: 18
Views: 23024

Re: The length some people go to

Alas, sorry about your daughter in law. I have a niece who is lesbian and she and her wife have a baby boy. It seems to me to be just as valid and genuine a family as anyone has. Sending good thoughts and prayers.
by stuck
Tue Apr 08, 2025 12:53 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: NOMference Spring 2025 Sunday afternoon!!!!
Replies: 56
Views: 63212

Re: NOMference Spring 2025 Sunday afternoon!!!!

I just read all of nomference and sounds like I didn't miss much right? I was lucky that we were on a road trip and only had to listen to part of 2 or so talks. I'm glad Mopag and team suffered through it to give us some good commentary.
by stuck
Wed Mar 26, 2025 3:57 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: What words of comfort and wisdom will we receive...
Replies: 14
Views: 63862

Re: What words of comfort and wisdom will we receive...

I think my wife is a bit more open to criticism of the church now, even though she is still tbm. I just need to tune into nomference to see right :P
by stuck
Wed Feb 19, 2025 12:35 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Mormon Stories Justin Sweeney
Replies: 6
Views: 24550

Re: Mormon Stories Justin Sweeney

Unbelief in Santa Claus as we transition to adulthood seems universal. Whereas unbelief in the church is not universal because there is still a strong cultural pressure to believe and our friendships and family relationships are tied to these beliefs it seems. That's why mixed faith marriages are ...
by stuck
Mon Feb 03, 2025 3:46 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Come Along With Me - Second Arrow
Replies: 9
Views: 47660

Re: Come Along With Me - Second Arrow

Linked, I am impressed that you at least are able to have your family stay home with you once a month. My wife is pretty strong-willed and so it's been hard to do much compromising with her. I am just hoping to at least let them them know of my beliefs before they decide to go on a mission and ...
by stuck
Wed Jan 29, 2025 4:38 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Visions
Replies: 7
Views: 17424

Re: Visions

I searched the internet and found a couple of reddit posts that seemed to apply. One under ParleyPrattskin and the one below that Truthisantimormon. Here's the link: https://www.reddit.com/r/mormon/comment ... ?rdt=36748
by stuck
Tue Jan 21, 2025 6:26 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Visions
Replies: 7
Views: 17424

Visions

I have an ancestor who was in the Kirtland temple with JS was there and said that he looked where JS was looking and saw 6 persons dressed in white wearing baker's hats and mocasins. He said that this vision strengthened his testimony of the temple later on. This is sort of an impressive vision to ...
by stuck
Mon Jan 06, 2025 5:56 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Happy New Year!
Replies: 13
Views: 36610

Re: Happy New Year!

Sounds good on the reunion. I'll just need a bit of advanced notice to plan. If we could do it at the Fashion Place Mall again that would be really convenient. Yes Hagoth that is kind of a crazy story. They would probably have to make really sturdy lids to open and close for air. I was also trying ...
by stuck
Mon Nov 04, 2024 3:16 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Why People Quit Religion and How They Find Meaning Again
Replies: 4
Views: 10016

Re: Why People Quit Religion and How They Find Meaning Again

It's encouraging to know that this is probably a trend and hopefully it will continue to be increasingly common so that those who are still in will have more empathy for us. And like he says, I suppose we need to have empathy for the believers.
by stuck
Tue Oct 15, 2024 2:35 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Praise to the Man! (Cap'n Salty)
Replies: 17
Views: 41719

Re: Praise to the Man! (Cap'n Salty)

Yes, thanks! I was a bit worried it was going away for good. I missed nomference too! I had to tune into the last session and it was not good for us nomies. What you gonna do :?
by stuck
Tue Sep 24, 2024 12:19 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Religious Scrupulosity OCD
Replies: 4
Views: 9620

Re: Religious Scrupulosity OCD

Yes, maybe I should suggest this book to my wife's book club. She definitely has it. We must do scripture study daily (1 full chapter no less), fhe and family planning weekly and don't forget come follow me. I think she would like to wear one of those badges to my chagrin. It makes staying in a ...
by stuck
Tue Sep 24, 2024 12:18 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Religious Scrupulosity OCD
Replies: 4
Views: 9620

Re: Religious Scrupulosity OCD

Yes, maybe I should suggest this book to my wife's book club. She definitely has it. We must do scripture study daily (1 full chapter no less), fhe and family planning weekly and don't forget come follow me. I think she would like to wear one of those badges to my chagrin. It makes staying in a ...
by stuck
Sun Sep 08, 2024 11:18 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Arnold on Hate
Replies: 4
Views: 19567

Re: Arnold on Hate

Wow I knew he had some good in him. That was a great message. Thanks for sharing!
by stuck
Sun Sep 08, 2024 10:54 am
Forum: Mixed Faith Relationships
Topic: David Archuleta song about stepping away from the Church
Replies: 5
Views: 382541

Re: David Archuleta song about stepping away from the Church

It's great to have celebrities on our side right!? Looks like I'm going to baptize my son not that I believe in the church but to appease my believing wife and that I don't think it's a bad thing to follow jesus. But this may make it harder to explain to my son probably when he's contemplating a ...