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by stuck
Fri May 03, 2024 4:26 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: How to respond to believing spouse?
Replies: 14
Views: 126

Re: How to respond to believing spouse?

Something of note that hasn't been mentioned: Baptism is an Aaronic Priesthood ordinance. Any zit-faced 16-year-old MORmON has the "power" to baptize. ( Nothing against zit-faced 16-year-olds - that was me at that age, AND I was a red-head! :shock: ) Just a little something to keep in the back pock...
by stuck
Fri May 03, 2024 3:44 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: How to respond to believing spouse?
Replies: 14
Views: 126

Re: How to respond to believing spouse?

This is the child's event, not the parents. Do what it takes to serve the child's interest, even down to skipping baptism if so chosen. As to your part, if baptism is chosen, do what the church says you can as a non-believer. If that's nothing, then there's the answer. If that changes your child's ...
by stuck
Fri May 03, 2024 7:45 am
Forum: Support
Topic: How to respond to believing spouse?
Replies: 14
Views: 126

Re: How to respond to believing spouse?

Great responses wtfluff and RR! It seems the consensus is focus on the child and treat it as a tradition. This makes sense and seems to be the most peaceful route to go. My sticking point was do I believe Jesus is our savior? I don't think so, so maybe that's going to be a problem. But if I don't em...
by stuck
Thu May 02, 2024 11:54 am
Forum: Support
Topic: How to respond to believing spouse?
Replies: 14
Views: 126

Re: How to respond to believing spouse?

Thanks for all of the wonderful responses! You guys are awesome! I think I may need to be honest on this one and so it may come down to me not being able to baptize my son. However, I think my father in law that he likes would do it or my dad. And it would give me a good opportunity to speak with hi...
by stuck
Tue Apr 30, 2024 9:54 am
Forum: Support
Topic: How to respond to believing spouse?
Replies: 14
Views: 126

How to respond to believing spouse?

For those of us in mixed faith marriages-- How do you respond to your believing spouse especially when it comes to deciding whether to baptize your child as an unbeliever? I spoke with my bishop not too long ago about baptizing my son in a few months. My wife of course wants me to do so. She thinks ...
by stuck
Thu Feb 15, 2024 4:12 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: A quick update
Replies: 12
Views: 844

Re: A quick update

Red, ditto to the above. You have been an awesome contributor to this board and we will miss you. Hopefully you can check in frequently. Glad to hear your wife has seen the "light". I will have to listen to more of that podcast and see if it might interest my wife who is still 110% in :cry:
by stuck
Fri Jan 26, 2024 3:03 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: New Prophet/President of CoC
Replies: 5
Views: 1016

Re: New Prophet/President of CoC

How much do they have to pay in tithing?
by stuck
Fri Jan 26, 2024 2:52 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Communication skills
Replies: 61
Views: 8443

Re: Since we don’t have moderators

Thanks Alas for bringing this topic to our attention. I have heard this before but it's good to get a reminder and especially from someone who has had a lot of experience with it. In our last "talk" I told her that I don't think I could believe in the church again because there were too many issues ...
by stuck
Sat Jan 13, 2024 4:18 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Pope, Gay blessing, Conversion opportunity
Replies: 47
Views: 104227

Re: Pope, Gay blessing, Conversion opportunity

Hey Mayan, I don't think Moksha was saying that all saints are anti-lgbt. I think he was just poking fun at the church because of what Angel listed and I would add the musket speech given by Holland. Can't we all just get along? Namaste
by stuck
Sun Jan 07, 2024 1:36 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Replacing the New Order Mormon
Replies: 59
Views: 62828

Re: Replacing the New Order Mormon

I was active on NOM for a long, long time - under a different username for many years, and then after doxxing myself like an idiot one Halloween unmasking, in 2016 had to switch to my present username. When I first joined NOM, the "middle way" really was the ethos. I was perhaps not as patient with...
by stuck
Sat Jan 06, 2024 2:45 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: The most correct book....
Replies: 25
Views: 4809

Re: The most correct book....

Recently my mom wanted me to listen to the following podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rECiIc5Ctak. You will probably cringe alot throughout like I did if you listen to it. I told my mom that I would listen to that if she would listen to one of the Mormon stories episodes with Mike on the bom...
by stuck
Wed Dec 27, 2023 1:49 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Went to church today (Dec 24th) and …
Replies: 6
Views: 1777

Re: Went to church today (Dec 24th) and …

I attended also. I was grateful it was only one hour. My son joined the combined primary and choir number that they did. One guy was asked to bear his testimony and it was the traditional "I know the church is true--blar blar blar". It's kind of interesting. I haven't attended EQ for a long time. So...
by stuck
Thu Dec 21, 2023 2:50 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Mormon Missions ARE Human Trafficking
Replies: 9
Views: 1615

Re: Mormon Missions ARE Human Trafficking

I also think missionaries get really good at finding the miracles, or learning how to confirm biases and exaggerate the feelings and promptings they get, while others who are certainly no less spiritual think they are doing something wrong when they're just not getting those same miracles and posit...
by stuck
Tue Oct 31, 2023 9:56 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Your tithing dollars at work!
Replies: 19
Views: 3076

Re: Your tithing dollars at work!

Wow I think you or whoever said it was true--the church is becoming a real-estate business!
by stuck
Wed Oct 18, 2023 11:55 am
Forum: Support
Topic: NOM Anthems
Replies: 6
Views: 5088

Re: NOM Anthems

I posted one not long ago "Do you hear the people sing" from Les Miserables.
https://newordermormon.net/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=6594

I like yours too. Sometimes it feels like my marriage is on a tightrope and also friend and family relations :shock:
by stuck
Fri Sep 22, 2023 1:12 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Are you ready for Moroni Day?
Replies: 18
Views: 14026

Re: Are you ready for Moroni Day?

Don't forget he also dedicated the spot for the Manti temple :roll: https://collections.lib.utah.edu/detail ... %20Library
by stuck
Fri Sep 22, 2023 12:02 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Garments always hanging out and it drives me nuts
Replies: 21
Views: 19275

Re: Garments always hanging out and it drives me nuts

Yeah, I bought the brief style for shorts but they're too tight. The boxer style's waistband is too tight also. The top is too hot during the day so I usually ditch it when I get to work. I agree with RR. It would be better in bed without them ;) Maybe that could be another marketing slogan--multipl...
by stuck
Thu Sep 14, 2023 12:18 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Quakerism
Replies: 4
Views: 7238

Re: Quakerism

... she has learned a lot about Joseph Smith and has caused her to realize that he is an imperfect(fallible) man. . Quakers seem to move through this world almost unseen, doing good without getting much attention. Seems like a pretty Christian way of being, compared to the big, loud, demanding Chri...
by stuck
Tue Sep 12, 2023 3:01 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Quakerism
Replies: 4
Views: 7238

Re: Quakerism

Interesting. Christians actually acting like Christians. Good for them. Apart from having a strange name, I'd never given them much thought. Question- are they the ones we should thank for this brother and sister business that Mormons have embraced and which there seems to be no end to? Yeah wikipe...
by stuck
Mon Sep 11, 2023 3:00 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Quakerism
Replies: 4
Views: 7238

Quakerism

I went to a business conference in Philadelphia over the weekend. This is also where I served my mission and went to grad school. I visited the historical district and in particular the historic Quaker church and museum. Here is a link https://www.historicasmh.org/ . I was impressed with how this ch...