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by Hermey
Sat Jul 22, 2017 8:14 pm
Forum: Mixed Faith Relationships
Topic: How to have the talk
Replies: 30
Views: 23624

Re: How to have the talk

In nearly 13 years of reading boards, blogs, and exit stories, the most common mistake people make is to not tell their spouse anything, and then when they can't take it anymore they back up the dump truck and unload everything all at once. This almost always never works and creates chaos that take...
by Hermey
Wed Jul 19, 2017 7:34 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: I lost my son
Replies: 74
Views: 25954

Re: I lost my son

Oh, MoPag. I am so sorry. My heart breaks for you! There are no words....
by Hermey
Wed Jul 19, 2017 7:19 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Mom Has Passed Into Eternity
Replies: 34
Views: 13801

Re: Mom Has Passed Into Eternity

I don't know what I believe anymore about the LDS afterlife. But I had a strong suspicion that I would see her again, so we must exist somehow after this? I know it's not very scientific, and maybe wishful thinking, but I'd really like to be reunited with her, my dad, and a literal pack of hounds (...
by Hermey
Tue Jul 18, 2017 10:12 pm
Forum: Mixed Faith Relationships
Topic: Really struggling with marriage right now.
Replies: 35
Views: 26232

Re: Really struggling with marriage right now.

Hey Hermey.. No i haven't communicated where im at with her because every time i try to talk to her about it she gets very defensive and starts lashing out at me regarding things she has issues with. So my life seriously fu$*ing sucks right now. If i just go along with what ever she wants to do abo...
by Hermey
Tue Jul 18, 2017 10:03 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Confused, directionless, and lonely
Replies: 27
Views: 49888

Re: Confused, directionless, and lonely

TeLo, I feel for you. Something that helped my wife was watching this video together with me.... http://www.linkingarms.org/2014/11/12/our-story/ There is nothing in it that should cause her to be directly confronted with the "issues" that we have with the Church, so it is "safe" to watch. When he r...
by Hermey
Sat Jul 15, 2017 7:19 pm
Forum: Mixed Faith Relationships
Topic: Really struggling with marriage right now.
Replies: 35
Views: 26232

Re: Really struggling with marriage right now.

Sorry you're going through such a rough patch. Hats off to you for hanging in there as long as you have. There's no way I could have done it to the extent that you have. I shared what you wrote with my wife in order to maybe get some insight from her. Her question was if you had shared with her wher...
by Hermey
Wed Jun 21, 2017 4:47 pm
Forum: Gatherings, Events, and Announcements
Topic: Gateway Mall Lunch Possible Resurection
Replies: 107
Views: 138992

Re: Gateway Mall Lunch Possible Resurection

One of these days I'll actually make it there. But not for the next three weeks. Gonna escape from Utah for a little bit. :lol:
by Hermey
Wed Jun 21, 2017 4:45 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: "Gimme your wife" test of Heber Kimball
Replies: 25
Views: 15626

Re: "Gimme your wife" test of Heber Kimball

Poor Heber? I don't think so... My sad suspicion is that poor Vilate and Helen were the sacrifice ole Heber was willing to make for his place in the polygamy hot tub. Exactly. Heber also had a secret wife before Vilate grudgingly gave him permission to join the Joseph club, and he went on to become...
by Hermey
Mon Jun 12, 2017 8:00 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: The church really misses the mark on this one
Replies: 32
Views: 19878

Re: The church really misses the mark on this one

Love your story! My niece's wedding last October the same way. I wouldn't have missed it for the world. It was beautiful! Thank you Hermey! It was the perfect day! Good to hear from you and glad you got the chance to be there for your niece on her special day. I miss you all! Say Hi to all my Harmo...
by Hermey
Sat Jun 10, 2017 10:31 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: The church really misses the mark on this one
Replies: 32
Views: 19878

Re: The church really misses the mark on this one

Love your story! My niece's wedding last October the same way. I wouldn't have missed it for the world. It was beautiful!
by Hermey
Sat Jun 10, 2017 10:20 pm
Forum: Mixed Faith Relationships
Topic: Temple marriages are stronger?
Replies: 30
Views: 25965

Re: Temple marriages are stronger?

My father was born and raised Catholic. He attended Catholic grammar, middle, high school, and college. When he went to marry my mother in 1968, the Catholic church would not recognize (or perform) the marriage because my mother (never Catholic) was a divorced woman. This issue was the straw that br...
by Hermey
Mon May 22, 2017 9:40 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: What would make you change your mind?
Replies: 59
Views: 34807

Re: What would make you change your mind?

A lobotomy to start with. :shock: