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by alas
Sat Sep 28, 2019 10:45 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Refuted Parallels of Jesus & Ancient Saviors Again...
Replies: 13
Views: 5823

Re: Refuted Parallels of Jesus & Ancient Saviors Again...

I have studied some on this topic and Mohamed is the last “savior” that I would pick to show parallels to the Jesus myth. So, to me Dan Peterson sets up a straw man in Mohamed that is supper easy to knock down. Mohamed is seen as a prophet, not a Savior. Now, if Dan Peterson wants to educate himself...
by alas
Thu Sep 26, 2019 10:53 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Feeling Forced to Choose a Path
Replies: 38
Views: 20814

Re: Feeling Forced to Choose a Path

- Me wanting to learn more about church history and doctrine (starting in 2012) is the same as committing adultery. How? Because, according to DW, I knew that in digging I would find issues that would lead me to question the church. This desire to know more about the church is selfish and thus the ...
by alas
Thu Sep 26, 2019 10:38 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Love is not an excuse
Replies: 13
Views: 6679

Re: Love is not an excuse

I have noticed when leaders talk they tend to be invoke the love factor. They constantly say how much they love everyone and how humbled they are by it Frankly it annoys me. It is almost like it is used as an excuse sometimes. I love you so that justifies the comments I am going to make. Is it love...
by alas
Wed Sep 25, 2019 11:57 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Feeling Forced to Choose a Path
Replies: 38
Views: 20814

Re: Feeling Forced to Choose a Path

Your wife KNOWS that if a person digs into church history, they will find all kinds of problems that say the church might not be what it claims, but she knows the church is true. Wow, just wow! She knows good and well the church isn’t true like it claims, but the church is still true, like it claims...
by alas
Tue Sep 24, 2019 10:35 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Feeling Forced to Choose a Path
Replies: 38
Views: 20814

Re: Feeling Forced to Choose a Path

So many of us on this board are in the same boat, and there is some great advice here, and RR's list is invaluable, including his addendums. The only advice I can give is to realize that however hard it is, don't take the fact that your wife loves the priesthood holder you over the REAL you persona...
by alas
Mon Sep 23, 2019 11:42 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Terryl Givens steps into the BoA ring
Replies: 127
Views: 62872

Re: Terryl Givens steps into the BoA ring

Pascal's wager has always seemed deeply flawed to me because it is entirely dependent on the premises of a given belief system. John Larsen was the speaker at our Oasis meeting yesterday. Mentioned an Evangelical friend of his who agrees with John that, from his Evangelical point of view, there is ...
by alas
Mon Sep 23, 2019 11:27 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: New topless ruling for Utah
Replies: 43
Views: 22187

Re: New topless ruling for Utah

I'd like to propose that well informed men who are of good character, see women's breasts as both functional in the nurturing of infants and as sexual parts of the female anatomy as well. And I think that's a healthy outlook. Obviously I don't agree with the exploitive trends in our society that em...
by alas
Mon Sep 23, 2019 11:12 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Feeling Forced to Choose a Path
Replies: 38
Views: 20814

Re: Feeling Forced to Choose a Path

First of all ((hugs)) This rough, and we are here for you. Before you chose a path, I want to tell you a few things about your DW. I don't know her personally. But I know some things that might help you chose your path. Young women in the church are taught that if we don't marry a worthy return mis...
by alas
Sun Sep 22, 2019 12:48 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: New topless ruling for Utah
Replies: 43
Views: 22187

Re: New topless ruling for Utah

But it isn’t lady like to let on to the men what we all find sexy, so we don’t tell often. It’s one of the things the girls talk about, but don’t often tell the guys. That would be an interesting topic of conversation. Women tell each other stuff about their way of thinking, but they keep men in th...
by alas
Sun Sep 22, 2019 10:28 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: New topless ruling for Utah
Replies: 43
Views: 22187

Re: New topless ruling for Utah

I'd like to propose that well informed men who are of good character, see women's breasts as both functional in the nurturing of infants and as sexual parts of the female anatomy as well. And I think that's a healthy outlook. Obviously I don't agree with the exploitive trends in our society that em...
by alas
Sat Sep 21, 2019 7:50 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: New topless ruling for Utah
Replies: 43
Views: 22187

Re: New topless ruling for Utah

2bizE wrote:
Sat Sep 21, 2019 7:37 pm
I foresee a topless March in Salt Lake in the near future. A march for breast feeding or ERA.
No, it is much too cold in March to go topless. Now if you had not capitalized it, we could have a topless march in June. But in March, I am not marching topless.
by alas
Sat Sep 21, 2019 12:08 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Terryl Givens steps into the BoA ring
Replies: 127
Views: 62872

Re: Terryl Givens steps into the BoA ring

This reminds me of John Larsen's analogy about the wall and the flashlight. We can replace the wall with the arch. You're standing in a dark room examining a brick wall with a flashlight. You point the light at a single brick and see that it is cracked and crumbling. "It's ok," you say, "the wall o...
by alas
Sat Sep 21, 2019 11:45 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Terryl Givens steps into the BoA ring
Replies: 127
Views: 62872

Re: Terryl Givens steps into the BoA ring

But if you remove the book of Abraham stone, the arch falls. If you remove the Book of Mormon stone, the arch falls. If you remove the Jesus stone, the arch falls. Sorry.. I never got around to the punchline of my comment. Everyone whose shelf collapses has something in particular that triggers the...
by alas
Sat Sep 21, 2019 9:51 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Which “group” do you most closely align with?
Replies: 11
Views: 6552

Re: Which “group” do you most closely align with?

Well, since naturists are on the list, I would align with that group (not necessarily the LDS version, but here's a link for you anyway). http://ldssdf.org/v2/ Well, I might not be quite that natural, seeing as I like to have boob support and to cover surgery scars and baby stretch marks. But I thi...
by alas
Sat Sep 21, 2019 9:30 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Terryl Givens steps into the BoA ring
Replies: 127
Views: 62872

Re: Terryl Givens steps into the BoA ring

Guys, you are arguing over which one element of the church is the “key stone”. Now, step back. What exactly is a key stone? It is the top stone in an arch, which if removed, the whole arch falls. Only problem is that if you remove the stone next to the key stone, the whole arch falls. See, in an arc...
by alas
Fri Sep 20, 2019 1:53 pm
Forum: Mixed Faith Relationships
Topic: I need help. Im so lost, I hurt, she hurts. I have no hope.
Replies: 7
Views: 6682

Re: I need help. Im so lost, I hurt, she hurts. I have no hope.

I am a retired social worker and did a small amount of what would be called marriage counseling with couples where there had been domestic violence, and I do have one thought from my experience and that is that it is never a good idea to tell your spouse your sexual fantasies, or even that you have ...
by alas
Fri Sep 20, 2019 12:35 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Major changes to organizations and auxiliaries set for October conference
Replies: 10
Views: 5577

Re: Major changes to organizations and auxiliaries set for October conference

So it would make sense that they make some organizational changes to streamline their corporate structure and then throw a small bone to women by letting them be a witness... I mean it's all a lie anyway so what does it matter? But yeah - giving women the ability to be a "witness" will absolutely g...
by alas
Fri Sep 20, 2019 7:35 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: New topless ruling for Utah
Replies: 43
Views: 22187

Re: New topless ruling for Utah

Huh? :?: George Langel of Ft. Collins pointed out what he says is a contradiction of laws: Just seems like a contradictory of laws a woman can expose her breasts, but a man can’t go in an alley behind a dumpster and take a pee without coming up on criminal charges. How is baring one's chest in publ...
by alas
Fri Sep 20, 2019 7:08 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Resume fun
Replies: 12
Views: 5000

Re: Resume fun

Before I had any real job experience, except mother of three, I was advised to put down volunteer experience. I had a bit of that, even in the mental health field. Whoever the advisor was, I asked specifically about church volunteer positions and without knowing I was Mormon or being Mormon himself ...
by alas
Thu Sep 19, 2019 3:07 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Pres Nelson's BYU Speech Today
Replies: 54
Views: 25018

Re: Pres Nelson's BYU Speech Today

I am just now getting up to speed with Ol' Nellie's talk. Can anyone explain why he would even talk about the policy reversal like this right now? I know it was a topic of discussion for a while after it happened, but like most news, seemed like the tide had past. Is the policy reversal still a hot...