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by Dravin
Sun May 21, 2017 8:59 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Can Darwinian Natural Selection Theory be Squared With Church Origin Doctrine?
Replies: 19
Views: 10817

Re: Can Darwinian Natural Selection Theory be Squared With Church Origin Doctrine?

My thought process was a meticulous four step process that went like this: 1. Creation 2. Evolution 3. ??? 4. Belief Though really you have to pin down just what the church's doctrine is on the subject. There are statements by leadership that pretty clearly put church doctrine at odds with accepting...
by Dravin
Sun May 21, 2017 8:49 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: LDS Church and BSA part ways
Replies: 46
Views: 29848

Re: LDS Church and BSA part ways

The problem in the church with scouting has always been that the church never let the program function as intended. The church constantly tried to make it adapt to their own structure of what groups the young men fell into. Secondly we tried to make scouting mandatory. Mandatory leaders through chu...
by Dravin
Sun May 21, 2017 8:08 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Disgusting Primary Manual story that sets unrealistic expectations
Replies: 12
Views: 9058

Re: Disgusting Primary Manual story that sets unrealistic expectations

What I love is there are stories like the above, and similar ones about tithing, and then if you don't get financially blessed and wonder why you'll have people look down their noses at you in disdain while tutting, "Nobody promised you that you'd be blessed financially, just that you'd be blessed."
by Dravin
Sun May 21, 2017 8:05 am
Forum: Support
Topic: A different Q15 --------- Question #5 (Chastity--is it getting hot in here?)
Replies: 26
Views: 12391

Re: A different Q15 --------- Question #5 (Chastity--is it getting hot in here?)

Yes, as per the definition given in the temple. Of course, you're expected to answer yes prior to going to the temple to learn the Law of Chastity.
by Dravin
Sat May 20, 2017 11:05 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: A different Q15 ---------- Question #4 (which actually includes three questions)
Replies: 23
Views: 12449

Re: A different Q15 ---------- Question #4 (which actually includes three questions)

#4 Do you sustain the President of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints as the Prophet, Seer, and Revelator and as the only person on the earth who possesses and is authorized to exercise all priesthood keys? Do you sustain members of the First Presidency and the Quorum of the Twelve Apo...
by Dravin
Sat May 20, 2017 10:54 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: A different Q15 ---------- Question #3 (Restoration)
Replies: 20
Views: 8157

Re: A different Q15 ---------- Question #3 (Restoration)

NOWmormon wrote:
Fri May 19, 2017 4:45 am
Do you have a testimony of the restoration of the gospel in these the latter days?
Nope.
by Dravin
Sat May 20, 2017 10:49 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: A different Q15 ----------Question #2
Replies: 23
Views: 8806

Re: A different Q15 ----------Question #2

NOWmormon wrote:
Thu May 18, 2017 4:39 am
2 Do you have a testimony of the Atonement of Christ and of His role as Savior and Redeemer?
No. Of course given my answer for the first question this shouldn't be surprising. I'm curious who would give a Yes/No or a No/Yes? Just what fish is question 2 trying to catch that question 1 missed?
by Dravin
Sat May 20, 2017 10:43 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: A different Q15----------
Replies: 37
Views: 19216

Re: A different Q15----------

#1 Do you have faith in and a testimony of God the Eternal Father, His Son Jesus Christ, and the Holy Ghost? No. I kinda sat here staring at the screen trying to elaborate, but the short of it is that I don't. You might as well be asking my former believing self if I had faith in or a testimony of ...
by Dravin
Sat May 20, 2017 10:34 pm
Forum: Mixed Faith Relationships
Topic: What is the tipping point?
Replies: 9
Views: 7585

Re: What is the tipping point?

It's different for everyone. Usually it takes both an emotional and intellectual crisis at the same time. A person can know about loads of dirty laundry, but if they still love the church then they can make it work. Hardcore apologists are often in this category. A person can be annoyed or hurt by ...
by Dravin
Tue May 16, 2017 6:42 am
Forum: Support
Topic: MIL: Sherri Dew says you're lazy and just want to sin
Replies: 27
Views: 18940

Re: MIL: Sherri Dew says you're lazy and just want to sin

I love the double standard concerning doubt. If it's an investigator who is doubting say the Catholic church that doubt is good. Mormons wouldn't dream of telling said investigator that they should restrict their questions and investigations to talking with their priest, the Bible, and the catechism...
by Dravin
Wed May 10, 2017 6:54 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: What would make you change your mind?
Replies: 59
Views: 34845

Re: What would make you change your mind?

I am so far gone- the only thing that would change my mind is a visit from Jesus himself. +1, I'd need a "Paul on the Road to Emmaus"-type of experience. Even if I was convinced that Jesus visited me and he was my Lord and Savior that doesn't take me to Mormonism being true. So I'd have to be both ...
by Dravin
Tue May 09, 2017 7:23 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Was Joseph Smith martyred, murdered, or removed from his place?
Replies: 26
Views: 30943

Re: Was Joseph Smith martyred, murdered, or removed from his place?

His killing was extralegal making it murder. As far as martyred it's going to depend on if you use a more general idea of being killed because of his adherence to beliefs or use a more specific concept of voluntarily going to one's death as a witness. I think a case can be made for the former sense ...
by Dravin
Wed Apr 26, 2017 5:55 am
Forum: Support
Topic: I still love you.
Replies: 15
Views: 9828

Re: I still love you.

Honestly, unless it's someone using it in an aggressively smugholish way chances are good that it's just the phrasing they've picked up through osmosis and it's not a reflection of a conscious thought process where they considered stopping loving you because of your beliefs but then decided to power...
by Dravin
Mon Apr 24, 2017 6:35 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: What was your first crack
Replies: 33
Views: 22369

Re: What was your first crack

My first crack, or at least conscious crack, was reading a scientific paper and evaluating the evidence for the hypothesis when the thought occurred to me, just what evidence does the church have for it's claims? If I encountered these evidences in a context outside of the church, say a scientific p...
by Dravin
Sat Apr 22, 2017 3:06 am
Forum: Support
Topic: And two steps back...
Replies: 13
Views: 18482

Re: And two steps back...

However, over the course of this long conversation, it became apparent that no change was acceptable to her. I got so frustrated I finally asked if she could imagine a small concession that even a lot of faithful Mormons make (I gave drinking caffeinated beverages and R-rated movies as examples). S...
by Dravin
Tue Apr 11, 2017 1:46 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: I figured it out, why can't you?
Replies: 21
Views: 10704

Re: I figured it out, why can't you?

Did she go through something real? Yes. Is it remotely comparable to what I’ve been through? Uh, no, I really don’t think it is. Am I being petty? Yes, yes I am. That is all. You're not being petty. She's telling you that your experiences are comparable, you're saying you don't think they are. I su...
by Dravin
Tue Apr 11, 2017 8:27 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Obsessive Dogmatism and Worship
Replies: 8
Views: 4597

Re: Obsessive Dogmatism and Worship

What are your thoughts about this tendency toward such obsessions? I think it's a natural outcome for a religion that focuses on perfection, obedience, and appearance (and often conflates the three) to have Pharisaical obsession over minutia like Pam or vanilla extract. It's really not a surprise t...
by Dravin
Tue Apr 11, 2017 7:37 am
Forum: Support
Topic: The rescue is on!
Replies: 9
Views: 7120

Re: The rescue is on!

She proposed reading the Book of Mormon together to begin “bringing me back to the light” (my snarky words but confirmed by her). After further discussion, she emphasized that she wanted it to be positive and uplifting. Her emphasizing that she wants it to be a positive and uplifting would be a bit...
by Dravin
Tue Apr 11, 2017 7:14 am
Forum: Support
Topic: What mission did you serve in
Replies: 83
Views: 49246

Re: What mission did you serve in

Spokane Washington under Clark.
by Dravin
Mon Apr 10, 2017 6:39 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Its all about sex
Replies: 24
Views: 23440

Re: Its all about sex

The Book of Mormon sais the purpose of plural marriage is babies--raising up seed. Period. Section 132 goes down the same lines and is a purely misogynistic document. And, people don't read it or ask questions? Yep. What's funny is apologetic or anti (if you'll excuse the term) the way Smith practi...