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by No Tof
Wed Jul 25, 2018 10:38 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Are Mission Presidents feeling the heat?
Replies: 20
Views: 12075

Re: Are Mission Presidents feeling the heat?

A recently returned sister missionary from Canada spoke in our ward a few weeks ago and said she had no baptisms and only worked with inactives. I was amazed that Canada would be so difficult for proselytizing. I would venture to say Canada is becoming more and more secular. (thank goddess) What wi...
by No Tof
Wed Jul 25, 2018 10:30 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hi, I'm new from the U.K
Replies: 16
Views: 14080

Re: Hi, I'm new from the U.K

Welcome to NOM. Contrary to your typical Sunday school classroom in your regular ward, all topics are acceptable and safe to discuss as long as civilly discussed. :D Most of us are jealous of your situation with your spouse. Many of us stay because our better half holds firmly to the "iron fisted ro...
by No Tof
Sun Jul 22, 2018 8:27 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Farewell, most probably
Replies: 24
Views: 9854

Re: Farewell, most probably

Farewells don’t have to be forever.

I hope you will find joy in your future. I’m confident you are already well on your way.

Thanks for sharing your perspective along the way. Interesting informative and always fun.

Would love to buy you a drink next time we visit the Netherlands.

Best to you.
by No Tof
Wed Jul 11, 2018 6:25 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: What is a non lds mom to think of the break up BSA and the Church?
Replies: 7
Views: 4895

Re: What is a non lds mom to think of the break up BSA and the Church?

[quote="Raylan Givens" post_id=42876 time=<a href="tel:1531195759">1531195759</a> user_id=534] ...the church will probably become more insular and conservative and "silly" as time goes on. While that may be an ideal situation for some ultra TBM members, it inches us closer to the time when fear of ...
by No Tof
Mon Jul 09, 2018 7:15 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: I’m having a difficult time right now
Replies: 17
Views: 6801

Re: I’m having a difficult time right now

So sorry to hear about your tough situation.

It’s times like this that I miss being able to say you’ll be in my prayers. However I can and do send you sympathy and supportive waves of the love which links us all together as human beings.

Wishing you peace.
by No Tof
Wed Jul 04, 2018 7:16 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Go to Elder's Quorum Shinasai
Replies: 8
Views: 5962

Re: Go to Elder's Quorum Shinasai

Yappari shinasai hou ga ii ne.
by No Tof
Wed Jul 04, 2018 7:14 am
Forum: Support
Topic: TODAY IS THE DAY EH.
Replies: 6
Views: 2827

Re: TODAY IS THE DAY EH.

Even small victories are worth celebrating with fireworks.



And a big shout out to all my American friends celebrating today.
May the beer be cold, the fireworks safe, and enjoy the company of those dear. 🍺🎇🇨🇦🇺🇸🏳️🌈
by No Tof
Sun Jul 01, 2018 8:29 am
Forum: Support
Topic: TODAY IS THE DAY EH.
Replies: 6
Views: 2827

TODAY IS THE DAY EH.

Just a quick shout out to all the Canadian NOM's out there to wish you a Happy Canada Day. DW is off to church while I put on my red and white colours to attend a little parade which will go through our little "park town". I imagine that many won't be there to support it since it's time is the same ...
by No Tof
Mon Jun 18, 2018 5:47 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Prayer to the ocean
Replies: 25
Views: 14839

Re: Prayer to the ocean

What a beautiful description of a peace filled experience.
Something to seek more of I think.

Thanks for sharing.
by No Tof
Sun Jun 10, 2018 11:07 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Now what?
Replies: 12
Views: 6807

Re: Now what?

HI Mooseman, It is a rare bishop that can actually take off his "judge in Israel" hat and have a real conversation when it is in the Bishop's office. Rare doesn't mean impossible though. Perhaps the most important thing in this decision IMO is where you are at in regards to the church and how much i...
by No Tof
Sun May 27, 2018 10:05 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Essay: The Beam in the Church's Eye
Replies: 18
Views: 11253

Re: Essay: The Beam in the Church's Eye

Some good ideas here but the points you make will work against this argument being seriously considered by TBMs. But I completely agree, the way members absorb the identity of their church role is blocking their ability to reason their way out. A question. How do the top leaders create an identity ...
by No Tof
Sun May 27, 2018 9:38 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Angelic bodies distracting my thoughts.
Replies: 6
Views: 3757

Angelic bodies distracting my thoughts.

Two topics came to my mind the other day. First: as a TBM I understood angel Moroni who visited the 17 year old JS was already a resurrected being. Body of flesh and bone presumably, since he took back the gold plates and other relics originally taken from the stone box in the hill. Do we have any e...
by No Tof
Mon May 14, 2018 8:47 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: LDS website: In a rare instance of polyandry...
Replies: 6
Views: 5063

Re: LDS website: In a rare instance of polyandry...

I suppose, if good hearted Henry was still legally married to Zina all that time, then Brigham was also into polyandry.

Anyone know if Henry divorced her?
by No Tof
Sun May 13, 2018 8:39 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Just A Big Hello!
Replies: 8
Views: 4734

Re: Just A Big Hello!

Hello back at you. Thanks for your post. Resignation has been in my thoughts for the past while, and although it would be a step of closure for me personally, it would hurt my DW so for now I keep up a certain amount of Mormonism life. I am interested in the idea of a resigned member such as yoursel...
by No Tof
Sun May 13, 2018 8:24 am
Forum: Support
Topic: My wife opened her mouth and started a family beatdown
Replies: 13
Views: 10069

Re: My wife opened her mouth and started a family beatdown

Sucks. It's worse when something awful happens to someone you're really close to like a spouse or a child. You just want to suffer it instead of them, but you can't. If there's a bright spot right now, Malcom, it's that she has you. Somehow, you sitting there and hurting with her will take some of ...
by No Tof
Sat May 12, 2018 12:16 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: No to Medical Marijuana for Utah
Replies: 32
Views: 18951

Re: No to Medical Marijuana for Utah

After July this year y’all can head up I-15 to the great white north to get legal MJ.

PLEASE NOTE: travel to Canada should not be attempted after October by any other then the hardiest of stock. 😉

Plus your dollar is seriously at an advantage here.
by No Tof
Mon May 07, 2018 12:49 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Visiting family, just need to vent a bit
Replies: 6
Views: 4244

Re: Visiting family, just need to vent a bit

I empathize with your pain.

That being said, it could be a lot worse.

You could still be in that same bubble.

Even with the frustration of seeing loved ones flailing in life, I wouldn’t want to go back to the box. Would you?
by No Tof
Tue May 01, 2018 11:42 am
Forum: Support
Topic: My first experiences with coffee
Replies: 38
Views: 24983

Re: My first experiences with coffee

dogbite wrote:
Tue May 01, 2018 11:04 am
I have no desire to learn to like it. It's just vile. If it tastes bad why stick with it?
If you google the health benefits of coffee you will find some good reasons.
by No Tof
Tue May 01, 2018 8:02 am
Forum: Support
Topic: My first experiences with coffee
Replies: 38
Views: 24983

Re: My first experiences with coffee

Sounds like my first experience with the black evil herbal tea. 😂 I remember thinking “no matter where this rabbit hole takes me, I won’t drink that vile stuff”. Forward four years and now good coffee black or with a bit of cream tastes better then my memory of great hot chocolate. Maturing tastebuds
by No Tof
Tue May 01, 2018 7:42 am
Forum: Mixed Faith Relationships
Topic: I'm Tired
Replies: 27
Views: 17419

Re: I'm Tired

I spoke with DW. I tried to be vulnerable. I just told her the things that have been hard. Basically the list I posted in the first post, sans alcohol because that triggers her. It went okay, but nothing will change. She is fully TBM. I am fully out. We both know it. She told me she isn't forcing m...