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by Corsair
Tue Dec 29, 2020 11:52 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: RFM and Peter Bleakley
Replies: 17
Views: 7009

Re: RFM and Peter Bleakley

This was a gratifying podcast. It was comforting to hear from someone who saw the problems without just heading for the exit. I have complete sympathy for people that do walk out the door. I'm still someone who is on the inside while arousing less suspicion than Brother Bleakley. I am enjoying the u...
by Corsair
Sat Dec 19, 2020 8:59 am
Forum: The Coffee Shop
Topic: The current Cyberattack
Replies: 5
Views: 2315

Re: The current Cyberattack

It almost feels right now like the Russians are in charge, and the cyber attack is kind of sealing the deal. I hope that somebody somewhere can get a handle on things soon. The good news is that the United States does have similar cyber attack groups. The bad news is also that the United States doe...
by Corsair
Fri Dec 18, 2020 3:21 pm
Forum: The Coffee Shop
Topic: The current Cyberattack
Replies: 5
Views: 2315

Re: The current Cyberattack

This is as good of a place as any for this post. I won't pretend that I understand how the politics is working with this appointment. It would be presumed that this could be overturned barely a month from now. I work with a team that manages SolarWinds and I also use SolarWinds to monitor some encry...
by Corsair
Mon Dec 14, 2020 1:27 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: SHE'S BAAAACK!
Replies: 16
Views: 25512

Re: SHE'S BAAAACK!

I saw your login name show up on the new registrations and could hardly believe that you had returned. Welcome back.
by Corsair
Wed Dec 02, 2020 3:31 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Expect No Good Apologies
Replies: 8
Views: 2973

Re: Expect No Good Apologies

The hope for some kind of apology and emotional closure is an emotional scar that probably last the longest in a faith transition. The belief system and institution that caused the problem truly does not believe that you are owed anything for your change of spiritual loyalty. There will be no dramat...
by Corsair
Mon Nov 30, 2020 3:38 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Has your definition of right and wrong changed?
Replies: 19
Views: 6126

Re: Has your definition of right and wrong changed?

A few issues I’m still working through: Assisted suicide Abortion Genome therapies Legalized drugs Legalized sex work My best "shoot from the hip" answer to these items would come down to decriminalization, counselling, and legal restrictions based on the real world effects of engaging in these act...
by Corsair
Mon Nov 30, 2020 3:17 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Does anyone have a NHM explainer handy by chance?
Replies: 21
Views: 7955

Re: Does anyone have a NHM explainer handy by chance?

Joseph Smith Didn't Understand How Language Works and it Shows: Prt. 3 Nahom There are more, but this is a fairly recent summary of one of the problems encountered by a non-LDS linguist looking over the explanations for NHM. In short, there are 5 different ways to pronounce the "H" in NHM if you ar...
by Corsair
Sat Nov 14, 2020 1:24 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: New to the website
Replies: 22
Views: 7172

Re: New to the website

I Heard that you consider yourself to be part of a ward together. Can you tell me more about that? Do you ever meet by zoom? It would be really fun to have a testimony meeting with you all, so we could get to know each other. The idea of us being a "ward" is a bit overstated. It's mostly that the L...
by Corsair
Sat Nov 14, 2020 1:20 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Finally, a prophetic message that will fix everything!
Replies: 24
Views: 7647

Re: Finally, a prophetic message that will fix everything!

That "insider" claimed that Rusty is finally gonna promote/endorse face coverings. Promoting face coverings is on the leaderboard of "most disappointing things a prophet could say." This is not out of mask skepticism. It's out of rolling my eyes about how this would have been a lot more impactful 8...
by Corsair
Sat Nov 14, 2020 1:14 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Mask wearing at Temple recommend question
Replies: 8
Views: 2642

Re: Mask wearing at Temple recommend question

Maybe sew the temple garment marks into the mask. That could convince the skeptics that having double temple protection would help.
by Corsair
Sat Nov 14, 2020 1:11 pm
Forum: Staying Faithful
Topic: This I Believe
Replies: 7
Views: 17258

Re: This I Believe

That's a pretty good list. Is there anything that you definitively don't believe. I'm not trying to mock you. Your beliefs are really broad and I was only curious if you maintain some opposition to any specific beliefs.
by Corsair
Sat Oct 24, 2020 12:42 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Are Bible stories Fables?
Replies: 14
Views: 4745

Re: Are Bible stories Fables?

Bible stories are fables whether or not they actually happened. This is much like the hagiography of the founders of the United States. I'm a huge fan of America and being an American. 90% of my family was here during the revolution. However, I am fully aware of the mistakes and errors of the founde...
by Corsair
Wed Oct 21, 2020 8:37 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: What if?
Replies: 26
Views: 8944

Re: What if?

Let me offer one contrary, yet boring option where the members kind of shrug and just go with it. Losing the doctrine of insular exclusivity would probably be a net negative where many of their liberal supporters drop from activity, but cultural inertia might simply keep the bulk of believers in the...
by Corsair
Sun Oct 18, 2020 9:50 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: The Great Apostasy didn't happen
Replies: 7
Views: 3011

Re: The Great Apostasy didn't happen

Really? So, right after he died, all the truths he laid down and the work he did...it got corrupted and destroyed almost immediately? He might as well have never come, then. Right, it's only the LDS church that makes any claims to a Great Apostasy. A number of early Protestants mention apostasy of ...
by Corsair
Sun Oct 18, 2020 4:19 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Are member's testimonies changing?!
Replies: 12
Views: 5602

Re: Are member's testimonies changing?!

Spouseman was in a conversation with an active TBM lady week and they volunteered the thought that, "the church is really a mess right now. Their aggressive stance against everything LGBT, women, and race is just spiraling into crazy." We can all hope that things calm down in a few weeks. I'm hopin...
by Corsair
Sun Oct 18, 2020 4:15 pm
Forum: Mixed Faith Relationships
Topic: Mental and Emotional Exhaustion
Replies: 55
Views: 71104

Re: Mental and Emotional Exhaustion

I’ve been contemplating divorce more and more, and she knows this. I feel as though the only things keeping me from doing it are the fear of hurting her and the kids…and the fear I have of being alone and starting over. I attach myself to other people’s feelings and feel hurt and pain at just those...
by Corsair
Fri Oct 16, 2020 12:40 am
Forum: Mixed Faith Relationships
Topic: Holding it in
Replies: 9
Views: 6252

Re: Holding it in

None of my prepared lectures came out of my mouth when I found the opportunity. It was a simple, "I'm not Mormon anymore. Because it's not true. It's a cult." Her response was, "I don't want to hear anymore. I can't take any more bad news today." That was the second week of August; we have acted li...
by Corsair
Fri Oct 16, 2020 12:26 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: The End of the World: August 2020
Replies: 13
Views: 21946

Re: The End of the World: August 2020

My questions right now are poking at the puzzle pieces regarding • the Great Apostasy and the Restoration and the logical contradictions inherent in that The Great Apostasy is the problematic subject with the fewest apologetic defenses. Joseph Smith's status as Prophet depends critically on having ...
by Corsair
Wed Oct 14, 2020 1:03 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Jaredite logistics
Replies: 18
Views: 5976

Re: Jaredite logistics

It has long amused me that the LDS church and FairMormon have spent endless talking and writing about weaker and weaker explanations that always end in "god doing some magic" to fix the problems. If Joseph Smith had simply had them cross in a regular boat then windows, and "holes in the top and bott...
by Corsair
Wed Oct 14, 2020 12:58 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: The End of the World: August 2020
Replies: 13
Views: 21946

Re: The End of the World: August 2020

I'm not angry anymore but there is no one in my life I can talk to. As stated, my younger brother is an RM. My family is heavily and devoutly involved with the church. They would take my family from me if I told them what I truly feel. It would destroy lives if I actually convinced anybody of the t...