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- Tue Dec 29, 2020 11:52 am
- Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
- Topic: RFM and Peter Bleakley
- Replies: 17
- Views: 7009
Re: RFM and Peter Bleakley
This was a gratifying podcast. It was comforting to hear from someone who saw the problems without just heading for the exit. I have complete sympathy for people that do walk out the door. I'm still someone who is on the inside while arousing less suspicion than Brother Bleakley. I am enjoying the u...
- Sat Dec 19, 2020 8:59 am
- Forum: The Coffee Shop
- Topic: The current Cyberattack
- Replies: 5
- Views: 2315
Re: The current Cyberattack
It almost feels right now like the Russians are in charge, and the cyber attack is kind of sealing the deal. I hope that somebody somewhere can get a handle on things soon. The good news is that the United States does have similar cyber attack groups. The bad news is also that the United States doe...
- Fri Dec 18, 2020 3:21 pm
- Forum: The Coffee Shop
- Topic: The current Cyberattack
- Replies: 5
- Views: 2315
Re: The current Cyberattack
This is as good of a place as any for this post. I won't pretend that I understand how the politics is working with this appointment. It would be presumed that this could be overturned barely a month from now. I work with a team that manages SolarWinds and I also use SolarWinds to monitor some encry...
- Mon Dec 14, 2020 1:27 pm
- Forum: Introductions
- Topic: SHE'S BAAAACK!
- Replies: 16
- Views: 25512
Re: SHE'S BAAAACK!
I saw your login name show up on the new registrations and could hardly believe that you had returned. Welcome back.
- Wed Dec 02, 2020 3:31 pm
- Forum: Support
- Topic: Expect No Good Apologies
- Replies: 8
- Views: 2973
Re: Expect No Good Apologies
The hope for some kind of apology and emotional closure is an emotional scar that probably last the longest in a faith transition. The belief system and institution that caused the problem truly does not believe that you are owed anything for your change of spiritual loyalty. There will be no dramat...
- Mon Nov 30, 2020 3:38 pm
- Forum: Support
- Topic: Has your definition of right and wrong changed?
- Replies: 19
- Views: 6126
Re: Has your definition of right and wrong changed?
A few issues I’m still working through: Assisted suicide Abortion Genome therapies Legalized drugs Legalized sex work My best "shoot from the hip" answer to these items would come down to decriminalization, counselling, and legal restrictions based on the real world effects of engaging in these act...
- Mon Nov 30, 2020 3:17 pm
- Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
- Topic: Does anyone have a NHM explainer handy by chance?
- Replies: 21
- Views: 7955
Re: Does anyone have a NHM explainer handy by chance?
Joseph Smith Didn't Understand How Language Works and it Shows: Prt. 3 Nahom There are more, but this is a fairly recent summary of one of the problems encountered by a non-LDS linguist looking over the explanations for NHM. In short, there are 5 different ways to pronounce the "H" in NHM if you ar...
- Sat Nov 14, 2020 1:24 pm
- Forum: Support
- Topic: New to the website
- Replies: 22
- Views: 7172
Re: New to the website
I Heard that you consider yourself to be part of a ward together. Can you tell me more about that? Do you ever meet by zoom? It would be really fun to have a testimony meeting with you all, so we could get to know each other. The idea of us being a "ward" is a bit overstated. It's mostly that the L...
- Sat Nov 14, 2020 1:20 pm
- Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
- Topic: Finally, a prophetic message that will fix everything!
- Replies: 24
- Views: 7647
Re: Finally, a prophetic message that will fix everything!
That "insider" claimed that Rusty is finally gonna promote/endorse face coverings. Promoting face coverings is on the leaderboard of "most disappointing things a prophet could say." This is not out of mask skepticism. It's out of rolling my eyes about how this would have been a lot more impactful 8...
- Sat Nov 14, 2020 1:14 pm
- Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
- Topic: Mask wearing at Temple recommend question
- Replies: 8
- Views: 2642
Re: Mask wearing at Temple recommend question
Maybe sew the temple garment marks into the mask. That could convince the skeptics that having double temple protection would help.
- Sat Nov 14, 2020 1:11 pm
- Forum: Staying Faithful
- Topic: This I Believe
- Replies: 7
- Views: 17258
Re: This I Believe
That's a pretty good list. Is there anything that you definitively don't believe. I'm not trying to mock you. Your beliefs are really broad and I was only curious if you maintain some opposition to any specific beliefs.
- Sat Oct 24, 2020 12:42 pm
- Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
- Topic: Are Bible stories Fables?
- Replies: 14
- Views: 4745
Re: Are Bible stories Fables?
Bible stories are fables whether or not they actually happened. This is much like the hagiography of the founders of the United States. I'm a huge fan of America and being an American. 90% of my family was here during the revolution. However, I am fully aware of the mistakes and errors of the founde...
- Wed Oct 21, 2020 8:37 am
- Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
- Topic: What if?
- Replies: 26
- Views: 8944
Re: What if?
Let me offer one contrary, yet boring option where the members kind of shrug and just go with it. Losing the doctrine of insular exclusivity would probably be a net negative where many of their liberal supporters drop from activity, but cultural inertia might simply keep the bulk of believers in the...
- Sun Oct 18, 2020 9:50 pm
- Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
- Topic: The Great Apostasy didn't happen
- Replies: 7
- Views: 3011
Re: The Great Apostasy didn't happen
Really? So, right after he died, all the truths he laid down and the work he did...it got corrupted and destroyed almost immediately? He might as well have never come, then. Right, it's only the LDS church that makes any claims to a Great Apostasy. A number of early Protestants mention apostasy of ...
- Sun Oct 18, 2020 4:19 pm
- Forum: Support
- Topic: Are member's testimonies changing?!
- Replies: 12
- Views: 5602
Re: Are member's testimonies changing?!
Spouseman was in a conversation with an active TBM lady week and they volunteered the thought that, "the church is really a mess right now. Their aggressive stance against everything LGBT, women, and race is just spiraling into crazy." We can all hope that things calm down in a few weeks. I'm hopin...
- Sun Oct 18, 2020 4:15 pm
- Forum: Mixed Faith Relationships
- Topic: Mental and Emotional Exhaustion
- Replies: 55
- Views: 71104
Re: Mental and Emotional Exhaustion
I’ve been contemplating divorce more and more, and she knows this. I feel as though the only things keeping me from doing it are the fear of hurting her and the kids…and the fear I have of being alone and starting over. I attach myself to other people’s feelings and feel hurt and pain at just those...
- Fri Oct 16, 2020 12:40 am
- Forum: Mixed Faith Relationships
- Topic: Holding it in
- Replies: 9
- Views: 6252
Re: Holding it in
None of my prepared lectures came out of my mouth when I found the opportunity. It was a simple, "I'm not Mormon anymore. Because it's not true. It's a cult." Her response was, "I don't want to hear anymore. I can't take any more bad news today." That was the second week of August; we have acted li...
- Fri Oct 16, 2020 12:26 am
- Forum: Introductions
- Topic: The End of the World: August 2020
- Replies: 13
- Views: 21946
Re: The End of the World: August 2020
My questions right now are poking at the puzzle pieces regarding • the Great Apostasy and the Restoration and the logical contradictions inherent in that The Great Apostasy is the problematic subject with the fewest apologetic defenses. Joseph Smith's status as Prophet depends critically on having ...
- Wed Oct 14, 2020 1:03 pm
- Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
- Topic: Jaredite logistics
- Replies: 18
- Views: 5976
Re: Jaredite logistics
It has long amused me that the LDS church and FairMormon have spent endless talking and writing about weaker and weaker explanations that always end in "god doing some magic" to fix the problems. If Joseph Smith had simply had them cross in a regular boat then windows, and "holes in the top and bott...
- Wed Oct 14, 2020 12:58 pm
- Forum: Introductions
- Topic: The End of the World: August 2020
- Replies: 13
- Views: 21946
Re: The End of the World: August 2020
I'm not angry anymore but there is no one in my life I can talk to. As stated, my younger brother is an RM. My family is heavily and devoutly involved with the church. They would take my family from me if I told them what I truly feel. It would destroy lives if I actually convinced anybody of the t...