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Could wanting your wife to take a few puffs partly arise from an unconscious desire for her to be more of an outsider to Mormonism? It would be kind of like how exmos often try coffee or beer partly to feel less Mormon, only applied to someone else.

Maybe get her to vape some ginseng or other "natural" herb? Is that even a possibility?

I'm just pleased you decided to share this with your SO, and she didn't just shut you down. That's pretty cool and is a great illustration of the openness of the communication in your marriage.

Good insights, thanks. Makes me realize I've got a good thing going.

Perhaps you can add some other elements of costume play. I'm sure as long as she keeps her garments on, it will all stay in the realm of normal God Ordained Marital Intimacy.