I lost my son

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Grace2Daisy
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Re: I lost my son

Post by Grace2Daisy » Wed Jul 19, 2017 7:58 pm

Nothing I can say will help. . . . just sending good thoughts your way. I'm very, very sad for you.
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Re: I lost my son

Post by Brent » Thu Jul 20, 2017 1:14 am

Wow. Just wow. Condolences and comfort from afar.

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Re: I lost my son

Post by crazyhamster » Thu Jul 20, 2017 1:49 am

Mopag, my deepest condolences.

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Re: I lost my son

Post by Hagoth » Thu Jul 20, 2017 6:14 am

I wish we could hold your hand.
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Jesus: "The Kingdom of God is within you." The Buddha: "Be your own light."

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Re: I lost my son

Post by deacon blues » Thu Jul 20, 2017 8:43 am

I'm sorry, as we all are, for your terrible loss. Keep us updated on how you are feeling, if it helps. We wish you to have all the support you need to get through this difficult time.
God is Love. God is Truth. The greatest problem with organized religion is that the organization becomes god, rather than a means of serving God.

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Re: I lost my son

Post by beetbox » Thu Jul 20, 2017 8:47 am

Mopag, I know I can't pretend to understand your grief right now. My heart aches for your loss. My dearest sympathy to you and your family as you move forward after this tragedy.

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Re: I lost my son

Post by FiveFingerMnemonic » Thu Jul 20, 2017 3:27 pm

I can't imagine! Deeply sorry for you and your family at this time of grief.

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Re: I lost my son

Post by Ho Lee Turtle » Thu Jul 20, 2017 6:03 pm

I offer my sincere condolence and deepest sympathy on your loss. May the outpouring of sympathy, the kind acts of friends and strangers and the comfort in knowing that your loss is felt by many, help you through this difficult time.

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Re: I lost my son

Post by DPRoberts » Thu Jul 20, 2017 6:54 pm

Feeling quite helpless because words seem so useless. Or at best inadequate. May you find the peace and support that you need.
When an honest man discovers he is mistaken, he will either cease to be mistaken or cease to be honest. -anon
The belief that there is only one truth, and that oneself is in possession of it, is the root of all evil in the world. -Max Born

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Re: I lost my son

Post by Evil_Bert » Thu Jul 20, 2017 9:00 pm

I don't know what else to say except that I am sorry for your loss.
Illegitimi non carborundum.

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Re: I lost my son

Post by slk » Thu Jul 20, 2017 9:44 pm

I'm so sorry. Please remember you've got friends here if you ever need to talk.

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Re: I lost my son

Post by FreeFallin » Fri Jul 21, 2017 5:09 am

I'm so sorry for your loss. My own tears are flowing at the thought. ((hugs))

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Re: I lost my son

Post by MoPag » Fri Jul 21, 2017 4:18 pm

Thank you all for your love and kind words. I love you all! I'm blessed to have a great support system IRL and that helps a ton. You guys are my spiritual support and I can't thank you enough for that. I'll post more later. Right now I'm still so out of it. Please know your words, thoughts, and prayers are comforting to me.
...walked eye-deep in hell
believing in old men’s lies...--Ezra Pound

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Re: I lost my son

Post by SunbeltRed » Fri Jul 21, 2017 5:23 pm

I'm so sorry MoPag. Thoughts and prayers with you and your family.

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Re: I lost my son

Post by Newme » Fri Jul 21, 2017 6:00 pm

I'm sorry you're going through this.
I also hope you feel that I'm here if there's something I can do for you.
One thing that has given me some sense of peace has been reading about NDE's (Near Death experiences).

This piece has also expressed feelings that have been difficult to otherwise express...
(Chopin's Nocturne posthumous c sharp minor) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KHccd-7WJK0

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Re: I lost my son

Post by MalcolmVillager » Fri Jul 21, 2017 9:11 pm

So sorry for your loss. No words, just sending love your way!

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Re: I lost my son

Post by Random » Fri Jul 21, 2017 10:15 pm

MoPag, I missed the unedited op, but it seems like (from the posts on this thread) your son was very young and the experience was horrendous (not that losing one's son is ever anything but horrendous). ((hugs)) I wish I could "make it all better." ((hugs))
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Re: I lost my son

Post by No Tof » Sat Jul 22, 2017 6:42 am

I'm so saddened to hear of your loss.
Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and right doing, there is a field. I'll meet you there.
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Re: I lost my son

Post by HighMaintenance » Sat Jul 22, 2017 6:46 am

I'm heartbroken for you, MoPag. Love and hugs from afar.
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Re: I lost my son

Post by Thoughtful » Sat Jul 22, 2017 5:11 pm

MoPag wrote:
Fri Jul 21, 2017 4:18 pm
Thank you all for your love and kind words. I love you all! I'm blessed to have a great support system IRL and that helps a ton. You guys are my spiritual support and I can't thank you enough for that. I'll post more later. Right now I'm still so out of it. Please know your words, thoughts, and prayers are comforting to me.

Still thinking of you.

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