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Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Sun Mar 25, 2018 6:28 am
by Mad Jax
My brother Rich called me this morning to tell me my father died of a heart attack in the early am. He was a month shy of 80. His heart had been a problem for him for many years, and he was fortunate enough to have good care in Rochester, Mn and fortunate enough to have been married to a skilled nurse for decades. It sounds as if he went quickly.

I think he died content, if he was conscious for any of it. He was a true believing Christian, of a good sort I would say, so I think his final moments were met without fear. I just found out about 20 minutes ago, so this really hasn't "hit" yet. Appreciate all of you.

Re: Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Sun Mar 25, 2018 7:23 am
by StarbucksMom
Mad Jax,
I am so sorry for your tremendous loss. I love the short but beautiful tribute you wrote of your dad. It sounds like he was a wonderful man who was blessed to be married to someone he loved and who loved him, and that he was a good father to his children also.
Sending hugs and prayers your way. May God bless and comfort your family at this time.

Re: Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Sun Mar 25, 2018 7:36 am
by deacon blues
Thanks for sharing, Jax. I'm glad that you consider us as part of a group of friends that want to know and help and grieve and reflect with you. My Dad and oldest Brother both passed away last January, and it brings up a lot of emotion. I wish you and your family the best as you mourn and remember the good times.

Re: Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Sun Mar 25, 2018 8:07 am
by Caligurl2012
Jax:

I am so sorry to hear about your Dads passing. I lost my Dad in January and I’m still in disbelief that he is gone. Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs!

Re: Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Sun Mar 25, 2018 8:12 am
by FiveFingerMnemonic
Glad he had good care at the end and seemed to go quickly in the night.

Re: Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Sun Mar 25, 2018 8:25 am
by Red Ryder
Sorry to hear Jax.

I think that's a good way to go. Not too early, not too late. No extended hospital stays while your health declines in front of your loved ones. No nasty car accidents, etc.

May you have find memories of your father at this time.

RR

Re: Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Sun Mar 25, 2018 8:46 am
by moksha
My condolences to you and your family, Mad Jax.

Re: Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Sun Mar 25, 2018 8:53 am
by Jeffret
Condolences on your loss, Mad Jax. I hope everyone left behind is able to find some peace and comfort.

Re: Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Sun Mar 25, 2018 9:37 am
by Corsair
I can only offer my sincere sympathy. It's a double loss of losing someone you love and suddenly finding yourself in charge of a crisis.

Re: Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Sun Mar 25, 2018 11:44 am
by Fifi de la Vergne
I'm so sorry for your loss, MJ. I hope you have someone to lean on as this sinks in. Sending warmest thoughts of comfort and strength.

Re: Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Sun Mar 25, 2018 12:44 pm
by Dravin
My condolences.

Re: Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Sun Mar 25, 2018 1:00 pm
by Linked
So sorry to hear of your loss, my condolences. He sounds like a lucky man who lived a life he could be proud of. Hang in there as you grieve.

Re: Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Sun Mar 25, 2018 5:17 pm
by SeeNoEvil
Sorry for your loss. He sounds like a great dad with lots of love and support. {{{hugs}}} sending hugs to you and your family at this most difficult time.

Re: Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Sun Mar 25, 2018 6:05 pm
by 2bizE
Thanks for sharing Jax,
May you find comfort in the many people who care for you and your family.

Re: Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Sun Mar 25, 2018 6:14 pm
by MerrieMiss
I'm so sorry to hear that. Sending many hugs your way.

Re: Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Sun Mar 25, 2018 11:01 pm
by MalcolmVillager
So sorry for your loss. May you find peace at this time and know that your father is always with you!

Re: Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Mon Mar 26, 2018 1:38 am
by redjay
Sorry fella.

Re: Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Mon Mar 26, 2018 1:40 am
by Reuben

Re: Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Mon Mar 26, 2018 2:01 am
by Anon70
Sorry to hear, hope you can find peace and comfort.

Re: Dad Died This Morning

Posted: Mon Mar 26, 2018 4:52 am
by No Tof
Feeling sad for your loss.

There is never a good time to lose someone you love as much as your dad.

Deepest condolences.