SaidNobody wrote: ↑Tue Oct 10, 2017 6:01 am
I was never asked to do something that offended my conscious.
Having served in a couple of Bishopric, Elders quorum presidencies and as HP group leader, I've had numerous occasions where I've been told to do or say things that went against my conscience.
For instance the time a sister came to me to ask if she could have a temple recommend even though she didn’t pay her tithing. She lived and met all other church requirements except this one.
She and her inactive husband lived on a very limited budget and he refused to allow her to pay a tithe (on her own money) even though she had approached him numerous times. She feared pursuing it further because in most cases he was a fair man and she didn’t want to rock the marriage.
I discussed her predicament with the SP and was told to relay the response that she needed to go back to her husband and keep asking...and no...she couldn't have the recommend.
I sheepishly rehearsed the SP's answer with her and she tearfully nodded and left the interview. I highly doubt she re-approched her husband. She didn't come back for another interview.
So there one sits....Caught between a sister's overbearing husband who's trying to make financial ends meet and a "letter of the law" bureaucratic SP who wants to make brownie points with SLC.
I'm sure some presumptive TBM out there would say she just needed to have more faith....
I always used to think the church really wasn't about the money.....but you know,... it is about the money.
Can you really and honestly imagine the Savior refusing this woman's request? "No, I'm sorry my dear, we're a pay to play dispenser of salvation. That "freely given" stuff is just Biblical nonsense.
Regarding Mountain Meadows, I think others have already addressed the need for extended research on that account.
"There is but one straight course, and that is to seek truth and pursue it steadily."
"Truth will ultimately prevail where there is pains to bring it to light."
George Washington