Thanks Graey, for the interesting info.
Blashyrkh wrote: ↑Sun Nov 08, 2020 5:05 pm
I believe Covid did the same thing to a lot of members. We were told we wouldnt be happy without church attendance, temple attendance and paying a honest tithe. Members have instead found that staying home on Sunday is actually kind of relaxing. Not attending the temple hasn't filled their lives with sorrow. They haven't fallen into financial despair even though they haven't paid a full tithe. In short, we have found out that for decades we have been sold a bill of goods.
In times like this, with a pandemic, political upheaval, social upheaval... you would think people would really cling to the gospel for comfort, answers and guidance. That the opposite has happened really speaks to the complete emptiness of the church's message. When people ask me what my issue with the church is, I cite two things. Polygamy, and just the simple fact that mormonism doesn't work as advertised. Blessings don't work, priesthood doesn't work, there is no prophecy, no guidance. My life is not measurably better in any way because of the teachings of the church. Anything good I get from the church I can get better from other organizations. Ministering is not effective. Missionary work is not effective. The auxiliary programs are ineffective because they are run by people who often were guilted into the calling and have no passion or talent for running the program and are barely given any funding to be effective. Even the very social interactions with members are often fake and ineffective because we are taught by a "prophet" that the love we feel for others, like god's love for us, is conditional upon whether they do what we want them to or not.
Wow, that kinda turned into a rant. But yeah.. I'm convinced that even among the 30% or less of the people on the records of the church that could be considered at least minimally active, VERY few of that 30% really believe it and live it or even like it; but only go out of a sense of obligation, family relationships, whatever. The pandemic is just making it more convenient for them to slip away.