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Imaginary Friends

Posted: Sat Apr 27, 2019 10:39 am
by deacon blues
As a boy I had a couple of imaginary friends, and I created a few imaginary worlds that I visited when I was stressed or bored. I have been reading "Born on a Blue Day" about Daniel Tammet, a man with Asbergers and it described how, as a child, he created an imaginary friend with quite a detailed background. I also found the following quote on Wikipedia:

Kutner (n.d.) reported that 65% of 7-year-old children report they have had an imaginary companion at some point in their lives. He further reported:

Imaginary companions are an integral part of many children's lives. They provide comfort in times of stress, companionship when they're lonely, someone to boss around when they feel powerless, and someone to blame for the broken lamp in the living room. Most important, an imaginary companion is a tool young children use to help them make sense of the adult world.[12]

Taylor, Carlson & Gerow (c2001: p. 190) hold that:

despite some results suggesting that children with imaginary companions might be superior in intelligence, it is not true that all intelligent children create them.[13] (n.d.) reported that 65% of 7-year-old children report they have had an imaginary companion at some point in their lives. He further reported:

Imaginary companions are an integral part of many children's lives. They provide comfort in times of stress, companionship when they're lonely, someone to boss around when they feel powerless, and someone to blame for the broken lamp in the living room. Most important, an imaginary companion is a tool young children use to help them make sense of the adult world.[12]

Taylor, Carlson & Gerow (c2001: p. 190) hold that:

despite some results suggesting that children with imaginary companions might be superior in intelligence, it is not true that all intelligent children create them.[13]



I wondered if Moroni, Nephi, and the world of the Book of Mormon might have originated from this type of childhood fantasy/coping mechanism. I'm not that experienced in childhood psychology, but I do remember Joseph was about 7 years old when he the serious illness, and the operation on his leg. I thought I'd throw this out and see what others thought.

Re: Imaginary Friends

Posted: Sat Apr 27, 2019 2:10 pm
by Palerider
I have nothing to base this on but I wouldn't be surprised if Joseph had imaginary enemies that he could go around vanquishing. Something on the order of Captain Kidd, pirates and Indian ghosts.

Delusions of grandeur?

Re: Imaginary Friends

Posted: Sat Apr 27, 2019 7:36 pm
by moksha
On message board posts found elsewhere on the internet, it seems that some LDS posters have imaginary persecutors. Not sure all of the roles these imaginary persecutors play, but perhaps these persecutors help perpetuate paranoid feelings.

Re: Imaginary Friends

Posted: Sun Apr 28, 2019 10:26 am
by hmb
Don’t forget those imaginary angels that threaten your life if you don’t marry young girls and other married women.

Re: Imaginary Friends

Posted: Sun Apr 28, 2019 5:13 pm
by Hagoth
Some might argue that the reasons for imaginary friends might also be the reasons for gods.

Re: Imaginary Friends

Posted: Mon Apr 29, 2019 5:52 am
by Not Buying It
I’d argue that to some Mormons (and others, to be fair), the Holy Ghost is an imaginary friend, because whether or not you believe in it, clearly sometimes people think it tells them to do things no holy being would. I heard a stake Sunday school president once say the Spirit told him to hit his son after he was disrespectful, for example. There are plenty of examples of this kind of thing. Whether it really exists or not, for some members the Spirit becomes an imaginary friend who tells them things they are really just making up in their own minds.

Re: Imaginary Friends

Posted: Mon Apr 29, 2019 4:56 pm
by John G.
I think Joseph Smith was a straight-up con man.

But think the concept of god is an out growth of the childhood imaginary friend. Jesus is the imaginary friend who delivers “justice” on people you hate and otherwise has the all ideal attributes that you wish you had. Prayer and the holy ghost is how you talk to your imaginary friend.

Re: Imaginary Friends

Posted: Mon Apr 29, 2019 8:11 pm
by moksha
So when we receive the gift of the holy comforter we should say, "Thank you, Bed Bath and Beyond?"

Re: Imaginary Friends

Posted: Fri May 03, 2019 6:07 am
by 2bizE
Recently I read somewhere a statement that Jesus is Santa Claus for adults. It has been picking at my mind since I read that...