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by stuck
Mon Nov 04, 2024 3:16 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Why People Quit Religion and How They Find Meaning Again
Replies: 4
Views: 787

Re: Why People Quit Religion and How They Find Meaning Again

It's encouraging to know that this is probably a trend and hopefully it will continue to be increasingly common so that those who are still in will have more empathy for us. And like he says, I suppose we need to have empathy for the believers.
by stuck
Tue Oct 15, 2024 2:35 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Praise to the Man! (Cap'n Salty)
Replies: 17
Views: 5263

Re: Praise to the Man! (Cap'n Salty)

Yes, thanks! I was a bit worried it was going away for good. I missed nomference too! I had to tune into the last session and it was not good for us nomies. What you gonna do :?
by stuck
Tue Sep 24, 2024 12:19 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Religious Scrupulosity OCD
Replies: 4
Views: 2370

Re: Religious Scrupulosity OCD

Yes, maybe I should suggest this book to my wife's book club. She definitely has it. We must do scripture study daily (1 full chapter no less), fhe and family planning weekly and don't forget come follow me. I think she would like to wear one of those badges to my chagrin. It makes staying in a ...
by stuck
Tue Sep 24, 2024 12:18 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Religious Scrupulosity OCD
Replies: 4
Views: 2370

Re: Religious Scrupulosity OCD

Yes, maybe I should suggest this book to my wife's book club. She definitely has it. We must do scripture study daily (1 full chapter no less), fhe and family planning weekly and don't forget come follow me. I think she would like to wear one of those badges to my chagrin. It makes staying in a ...
by stuck
Sun Sep 08, 2024 11:18 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Arnold on Hate
Replies: 4
Views: 4935

Re: Arnold on Hate

Wow I knew he had some good in him. That was a great message. Thanks for sharing!
by stuck
Sun Sep 08, 2024 10:54 am
Forum: Mixed Faith Relationships
Topic: David Archuleta song about stepping away from the Church
Replies: 5
Views: 12318

Re: David Archuleta song about stepping away from the Church

It's great to have celebrities on our side right!? Looks like I'm going to baptize my son not that I believe in the church but to appease my believing wife and that I don't think it's a bad thing to follow jesus. But this may make it harder to explain to my son probably when he's contemplating a ...
by stuck
Fri Sep 06, 2024 2:29 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: This garment underwear crack down is WEIRD!
Replies: 9
Views: 6035

Re: This garment underwear crack down is WEIRD!

Joseph Smith took his off apparently before being killed in Carthage. I thought we are to believe that they give us some sort of protection. He kept his jupiter talisman on though right? And we don't hear anything in the bible about garments do we? :roll:
by stuck
Tue Jun 04, 2024 11:52 am
Forum: Support
Topic: John Bunyan inpriation for Book of Mormon?
Replies: 11
Views: 7760

Re: John Bunyan inpriation for Book of Mormon?

Wow Hagoth, that's incredible! It's interesting what we keep learning after all this time since I had my faith crisis in 2014.
by stuck
Tue May 28, 2024 4:14 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: How to respond to believing spouse?
Replies: 28
Views: 15541

Re: How to respond to believing spouse?

Hagoth wrote: Thu May 23, 2024 6:55 am And take everyone out for ice cream afterward for a second scoop of The Spirit.
I could take them to Handel's where they serve the Blue Spaghetti Monster I mean the Blue Monster ice cream that my kids love :)
by stuck
Tue May 21, 2024 11:57 am
Forum: Support
Topic: How to respond to believing spouse?
Replies: 28
Views: 15541

Re: How to respond to believing spouse?

Linked wrote: Tue May 21, 2024 10:26 am Sounds like a good resolution to the situation. Enjoy your time with your fam!
Thanks Linked!
by stuck
Tue May 21, 2024 11:55 am
Forum: Support
Topic: How to respond to believing spouse?
Replies: 28
Views: 15541

Re: How to respond to believing spouse?

Red Ryder wrote: Mon May 20, 2024 3:23 pm If you end up doing the baptism, just wear bright red boxer briefs under the jump suit. That will get everyone talking. If that’s too scandalous, then make them BYU blue.
:lol: I think my son would like that :P
by stuck
Mon May 20, 2024 2:41 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: How to respond to believing spouse?
Replies: 28
Views: 15541

Re: How to respond to believing spouse?

So here's an update. My wife and I spoke with the bishop yesterday about baptizing my son. He talked it over with his counselors and they felt ok with me doing it. This new bishop has two brothers who have left the church; so that along with his interest in Mormon criticism and apologetics and in ...
by stuck
Tue May 07, 2024 3:24 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: How to respond to believing spouse?
Replies: 28
Views: 15541

Re: How to respond to believing spouse?

moksha wrote: Sun May 05, 2024 5:56 pm Tell your believing spouse to have a happy Cinco de Mayo.
I like it :)
by stuck
Tue May 07, 2024 3:23 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: How to respond to believing spouse?
Replies: 28
Views: 15541

Re: How to respond to believing spouse?

It's so nice to be mostly out of the church. All my siblings are out, but wife's siblings are all in so it makes it tough on her. Also, I still feel the pressure to stand in circles whenever wife's family has ordinance things. I try to avoid them when possible. That's why I think it would be good ...
by stuck
Tue May 07, 2024 3:18 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: How to respond to believing spouse?
Replies: 28
Views: 15541

Re: How to respond to believing spouse?

This is the child's event, not the parents. Do what it takes to serve the child's interest, even down to skipping baptism if so chosen. D&C 68 42 "For all men must repent and be baptized, and not only men, but women, and children who have arrived at the years of accountability." D&C 18 25 "And ...
by stuck
Fri May 03, 2024 4:26 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: How to respond to believing spouse?
Replies: 28
Views: 15541

Re: How to respond to believing spouse?

Something of note that hasn't been mentioned: Baptism is an Aaronic Priesthood ordinance. Any zit-faced 16-year-old MORmON has the "power" to baptize. ( Nothing against zit-faced 16-year-olds - that was me at that age, AND I was a red-head! :shock: ) Just a little something to keep in the back ...
by stuck
Fri May 03, 2024 3:44 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: How to respond to believing spouse?
Replies: 28
Views: 15541

Re: How to respond to believing spouse?

This is the child's event, not the parents. Do what it takes to serve the child's interest, even down to skipping baptism if so chosen. As to your part, if baptism is chosen, do what the church says you can as a non-believer. If that's nothing, then there's the answer. If that changes your child's ...
by stuck
Fri May 03, 2024 7:45 am
Forum: Support
Topic: How to respond to believing spouse?
Replies: 28
Views: 15541

Re: How to respond to believing spouse?

Great responses wtfluff and RR! It seems the consensus is focus on the child and treat it as a tradition. This makes sense and seems to be the most peaceful route to go. My sticking point was do I believe Jesus is our savior? I don't think so, so maybe that's going to be a problem. But if I don't ...
by stuck
Thu May 02, 2024 11:54 am
Forum: Support
Topic: How to respond to believing spouse?
Replies: 28
Views: 15541

Re: How to respond to believing spouse?

Thanks for all of the wonderful responses! You guys are awesome! I think I may need to be honest on this one and so it may come down to me not being able to baptize my son. However, I think my father in law that he likes would do it or my dad. And it would give me a good opportunity to speak with ...
by stuck
Tue Apr 30, 2024 9:54 am
Forum: Support
Topic: How to respond to believing spouse?
Replies: 28
Views: 15541

How to respond to believing spouse?

For those of us in mixed faith marriages-- How do you respond to your believing spouse especially when it comes to deciding whether to baptize your child as an unbeliever? I spoke with my bishop not too long ago about baptizing my son in a few months. My wife of course wants me to do so. She thinks ...