Angel, you sum up my Mom pretty well.

I think she might have been a little to subservient to my Dad, but that was part of her 20th century culture.
When I was little I idolized my Dad for traits like these: always being/acting like he was right, a good provider, competent, generally quiet unless provoked, loyal to his family and what he thought was right, and more open minded than the average Mormon. (Faint praise- I know

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I bring this up because kids often worship their parents, at least we used to.
WTF brings up the point: which god?
So what about Jehovah? I think Hagoth hits the high points, but he chose a negative perspective.
What do I think O.T. Jehovah was like? He was powerful, liked flattery, he was vengeful unto the third & fourth generations,

but Moses and Abraham were able to reason with him at times.,

etc. He was just plain mean to Job,

but delt creatively with Jonah and Isaiah.

He was gracious to King David, to a fault, in my opinion. But he wasn't part of a coverup for King David, as I understand it. That's how we know David was such a jerk.
I'm just talking about Jehovah as a literary figure. I am reminded by Dan McClellan that the Bible is not univocal, it contains many perspectives. And so the God of the O.T. will consequently have varied characteristics, and many different names, which is confusing to an honest reader.

God is Love. God is Truth. The greatest problem with organized religion is that the organization becomes god, rather than a means of serving God.