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by Ghost
Tue Sep 21, 2021 5:03 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Why is the Mall dying?
Replies: 6
Views: 360

Re: Why is the Mall dying?

I stopped going to malls when the video game arcades disappeared. If my local chapel installed a Dig Dug or Bubble Bobble cabinet, that might bring me back to church at least occasionally.
by Ghost
Sun Sep 19, 2021 7:06 am
Forum: Staying Faithful
Topic: Maintaining Some Degree of Connection
Replies: 2
Views: 2870

Re: Maintaining Some Degree of Connection

Isn't it funny how we (or at least I) used to talk about the pandemic ending? Anyway, while I didn't attend any church meetings in 2020, I have a couple times in 2021. But never my own ward, only while visiting friends or family in other places. It's interesting to hear typical talks again that remi...
by Ghost
Sun Sep 19, 2021 6:48 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Who thinks they're going to the CK?
Replies: 22
Views: 840

Re: Who thinks they're going to the CK?

He's pretty much all over the place. Maybe if you reach the Celestial Kingdom, you get to choose which god template to follow. And if scripture is any guide, you can change that on a whim as you go along. Petulant child, vindictive based on arbitrary and poorly-communicated rules, genocidal, condit...
by Ghost
Fri Sep 17, 2021 3:00 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Who thinks they're going to the CK?
Replies: 22
Views: 840

Re: Who thinks they're going to the CK?

The idea of designing aspects of a world always appealed to me, but not the part about being royalty or any sort of authority figure. I still have no desire to be in management, at work or in the afterlife. I never felt like I measured up, but it helped to learn that you can make a good case for pro...
by Ghost
Fri Sep 10, 2021 10:57 am
Forum: Support
Topic: My Update
Replies: 11
Views: 548

Re: My Update

Nice to see you check in. Here are two quality DM remixes you might like, if you haven't heard them.

Should be Higher (MAPS Remix)
Wrong (Thin White Duke Remix)
by Ghost
Fri Aug 06, 2021 9:39 am
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Joseph Smith’s brilliance
Replies: 16
Views: 1358

Re: Joseph Smith’s brilliance

Another of Joseph Smith's solutions that I always found compelling is the idea of premortal life, and that we all have existed as individuals in one form or another. This avoids the problem of God creating us from scratch and therefore being ultimately responsible for any "sin" we commit due to it b...
by Ghost
Thu Aug 05, 2021 3:57 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Get used to disappointment...
Replies: 9
Views: 1066

Re: Get used to disappointment...

One of the biggest disappointments I've faced is a loss of confidence in things I once saw as foundational and essential parts of my identity. I don't think this site can help me because any solution it offers is undoubtedly based on some of those same assumptions. I was still a little curious to se...
by Ghost
Sat Jul 10, 2021 6:37 am
Forum: The Coffee Shop
Topic: Things to See in the SLC Area?
Replies: 6
Views: 599

Re: Things to See in the SLC Area?

Thanks for the suggestions. I did the Snowbird tram and some Canyon trails, among other things. I was going to try the church history museum, but it's temporarily closed. If you want to grab lunch with NOMoids, just let us know. I would love to do this, but my trip is at an end. The only time I'd ha...
by Ghost
Sat Jul 03, 2021 1:05 pm
Forum: The Coffee Shop
Topic: What are you watching right now?
Replies: 24
Views: 3112

Re: What are you watching right now?

I decided to give "Lovecraft Country" a chance despite hearing pretty mixed things about it. I couldn't resist it forever, being a big fan of H.P. Lovecraft. The show is all over the place, but it's entertaining if you're willing to go along with the pulp story elements.
by Ghost
Thu Jul 01, 2021 6:07 pm
Forum: The Coffee Shop
Topic: Things to See in the SLC Area?
Replies: 6
Views: 599

Things to See in the SLC Area?

I'm visiting the SLC area this month. I've been there once before, a few years ago. On that trip, I made sure to see the Joseph Smith Sphinx (Gilgal Sculpture Garden). I know Utah has some nice national parks, and I might try to catch one or two of those. If anyone familiar with the SLC area has oth...
by Ghost
Mon Jun 21, 2021 5:56 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Calling Extended
Replies: 16
Views: 1184

Re: Calling Extended

I turned down a calling for the first time ever not too long ago. It's not an easy step to take. This past weekend I got blindsided with a home teaching route when I happened to run into my assigned companion. I was vaguely aware that I'd been assigned a route a few months ago when I got a phone mes...
by Ghost
Sun Jun 13, 2021 3:06 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: Truman Madsen and the JS Tapes
Replies: 11
Views: 1420

Re: Truman Madsen and the JS Tapes

I was a fan of the JS tapes, and even more of a fan of Madsen's book Eternal Man . I guess I probably still like that book, just for the attempt at exploring philosophical ideas in a Mormon context. That was something I couldn't seem to find anywhere else. (Sterling McMurrin was also doing that at a...
by Ghost
Thu Jun 03, 2021 10:27 am
Forum: Support
Topic: Witness film. Got your tickets?
Replies: 24
Views: 1971

Re: Witness film. Got your tickets?

I knew that the printer's manuscript showed all of the witnesses' signatures in Oliver Cowdery's handwriting, and some have seen this as evidence that the witnesses never actually signed anything themselves. But I guess the apologetic claim is that they all signed the original manuscript, which was ...
by Ghost
Wed Jun 02, 2021 9:48 pm
Forum: The Coffee Shop
Topic: Humor Relief
Replies: 31
Views: 7207

Re: Humor Relief

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by Ghost
Tue Jun 01, 2021 3:31 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: One Month Down. 59 To Go.
Replies: 20
Views: 1776

Re: One Month Down. 59 To Go.

Thanks for sharing. I'm sure every ward has at least a few active but nuanced or non-believing members. Probably more than you'd expect. I encountered someone who had been in my ward previously at a Mormon Stories event (this was years ago when they briefly held those) who told me they'd never have ...
by Ghost
Thu May 27, 2021 12:42 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: Growing Up
Replies: 4
Views: 567

Re: Growing Up

I have a friend who is the farthest thing from religious, who recently decided to define what he values in life. Making an actual list. He encouraged me to do the same thing and discuss it with him. I think this could be a valuable exercise in theory, but I find that I have a hard time even thinking...
by Ghost
Sun May 02, 2021 8:12 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: God vs Satan
Replies: 12
Views: 1259

Re: God vs Satan

I remember either someone at NOM or someone in a podcast interview years ago suggesting that all of God's power is confined to stories. And I guess you could argue the same thing about Satan. I've thought about this idea a lot over the years since, and I guess I should have written down where I hear...
by Ghost
Sun May 02, 2021 1:12 pm
Forum: Doctrinal Discussion
Topic: What do you believe about it now?
Replies: 26
Views: 2693

Re: What do you believe about it now?

These days I guess I still wish I could be confident in some sort of afterlife, but not with the same intensity as when I'd freshly lost my previous certainty. I don't know that I'd specifically want the Mormon version to be accurate. I think it's too vague to look forward to, other than the basic i...
by Ghost
Tue Apr 06, 2021 6:49 pm
Forum: Support
Topic: A So-Called Beloved Daughter
Replies: 17
Views: 1997

Re: A So-Called Beloved Daughter

Welcome to NOM. As others have said, you never have to worry about long posts here. We're accustomed to that, and you'll definitely find others who can relate to your situation and thoughts. One of the hardest parts of reevaluating your faith tradition is figuring out how to process the death of som...
by Ghost
Sat Apr 03, 2021 10:53 am
Forum: Support
Topic: NOMference Sat Morning Sp 2021
Replies: 135
Views: 9429

Re: NOMference Sat Morning Sp 2021

I haven't listened to GC in several years but I always read and enjoy these threads.